The Hollywood legend talks about her four marriages, her leading men, her feud with a well-known co-star, her longing to have a child, and her favorite roles.
Mass Market Paperback
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224 pages
Published
1963
by Lancer Books
(first published 1962)
Those of you who know me know that my heart belongs to Joan Crawford. But I love Bette, too, and I'll easily admit she's the better actress. This autobiography, written (ghostwritten, no dobut, but the voice is pure Bette) in the early sixties, is a fantastic look at a STAR. She readily admits to ego, temper tantrums, perfectionism, bull-headedness--everything for which Bette Davis is famous.
Her childhood sounds awful--her parents divorced around WWI, and her equally tough-as-nails mother is po
Those of you who know me know that my heart belongs to Joan Crawford. But I love Bette, too, and I'll easily admit she's the better actress. This autobiography, written (ghostwritten, no dobut, but the voice is pure Bette) in the early sixties, is a fantastic look at a STAR. She readily admits to ego, temper tantrums, perfectionism, bull-headedness--everything for which Bette Davis is famous.
Her childhood sounds awful--her parents divorced around WWI, and her equally tough-as-nails mother is portrayed as a dynamo, taking jobs to support herself and her two daughters (Bette's sister, Bobby, is a classic nervous-breakdown prone sibling of a forceful personality, always condemned to a life in her sister's shadow, grateful yet resentful of her sister's support). But Bette makes it sound tough, romantic, and plucky.
Her marriages were also a rough go--first husband Ham hated having a more famous wife, and forced her to have an abortion; second husband Farney fell and hit his head and died; Sherry apparently roughed her up and drank; Gary Merrill was torn between the life of a free-spirited actor and the comforts of home and family. And then there are the kids--B.D., who will grow up to write a Mommie Dearest-style hatchet job about her (I just ordered it from ABEbooks, of course); Margot, who turns out to be developmentally handicapped and is sent to live in a home (fifty years ago, you know, that's what they did); Michael, who is barely mentioned.
Bette tells tales on her famous co-stars, too, although most are favorable. I am looking forward to reading her later memoir, This'n That, written in the eighties. Good stuff.
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The Lonely Life essentially documents around sixty years of drama played out by the world renowned Bette Davis. From her early days of paternal neglect when she would cut her sister's hair for attention, to her unstable youth going from school to school, to the theater, to the silver screen and so on, this autobiography made it clear that from day one, Davis wanted nothing more than success. Of course, this came with a considerable price. The romance she dreamed of as a young girl would never co
The Lonely Life essentially documents around sixty years of drama played out by the world renowned Bette Davis. From her early days of paternal neglect when she would cut her sister's hair for attention, to her unstable youth going from school to school, to the theater, to the silver screen and so on, this autobiography made it clear that from day one, Davis wanted nothing more than success. Of course, this came with a considerable price. The romance she dreamed of as a young girl would never come true. Each of her four husbands quickly found themselves diminished in her shadow and walked away. Her headstrong personality and demand for her work as an actor in the 1930's, or better yet, as a woman in the 1930's caused friction with those she worked with and on the day of her death she knew that the one love she had in her world was her work.
What I enjoyed most about this piece was the opportunity to hear the great, proud, strong Bette Davis vulnerably admit her shortcomings and analyze the method behind the madness. I was afraid upon opening the book that I would find a step-by-step chronological list of accomplishments, but what I ultimately experienced was a vivid and mesmerizing story, and who better than Bette to do so. With each turn of the page, I could effortlessly imagine the aged, fiery actress appropriately stylized to the early 1960’s with a cigarette in hand.
It’s clear to those who already know this basic story that Davis had more determination than most of the men she work with and most often, for. However, with each memory she tells with remarkable detail and original feeling , the steadfast drive and passion she had through nearly six full decades of work is shared with her audience. I recommend this The Lonely Life to all of those who rightfully adore this larger than life woman.
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This was inspiring and a good portrayal of an actor's rising career. Bette Davis was intelligent, confident and well spoken. She never whined, but worked hard for what she wanted and achieved, fighting the Hollywood machine, losing, carrying on, and gaining a lasting respect among her peers. She acknowledged that she was too strong for most men, married to four, and the one she got along with best was killed - although that marriage may not have lasted ultimately. Her turn of phrase is quite ori
This was inspiring and a good portrayal of an actor's rising career. Bette Davis was intelligent, confident and well spoken. She never whined, but worked hard for what she wanted and achieved, fighting the Hollywood machine, losing, carrying on, and gaining a lasting respect among her peers. She acknowledged that she was too strong for most men, married to four, and the one she got along with best was killed - although that marriage may not have lasted ultimately. Her turn of phrase is quite original, for anyone who reads for writing style as I do. Her great joy and pride was in her daughter B.D., who later betrayed and devastated her who her book. The book is chatty, informative, pithy with opinion, a good view of an actor's challenges on stage and in film, and a tribute to a fiercely strong-minded woman whose beauty lasted far beyond her youth.
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This was her first autobiography. Largely out of print but you can find a used copy if you scour ebay or book fairs. I savored every detail of this book as part of my training to be a fag.
A must for any BD fan,a very honest account of her life,told in Bettes inimitable way.Also a very interesting insight into the film industry of the era.
Indomitable,tenacious,and prepared to fight her own battles to get to the top,a lesson in self reliance.
Ed Sikov's bio of Bette, Dark Victory, is a great read and respectfully details her life and work.
Bette's own version of her life is a bit jumpy, certainly NOT a kiss and tell, but offers many interesting observations on acting, and filmmaking in Hollywood. Her voice comes through, loud and clear!
like most stars of the era, she really portrayed herself in a beautiful light and skipped over a lot of the ugly stuff. I enjoyed it because I enjoy everything Bette Davis, but if you want to read her real life story...try reading More than a Woman.
I've never read a biography that was this good. Bette Davis is fascinating from start to finish, and if you love learning about people, this is a highly recommended read. No other Bette Davis book out rivals this one.
Ruth Elizabeth "Bette" Davis was a two-time Academy Award-winning American actress of film, television and theatre. Noted for her willingness to play unsympathetic characters, she was highly regarded for her performances in a range of film genres; from contemporary crime melodramas to historical and period films and occasional comedies, though her greatest successes were romantic dramas.
After appe
Ruth Elizabeth "Bette" Davis was a two-time Academy Award-winning American actress of film, television and theatre. Noted for her willingness to play unsympathetic characters, she was highly regarded for her performances in a range of film genres; from contemporary crime melodramas to historical and period films and occasional comedies, though her greatest successes were romantic dramas.
After appearing in Broadway plays, Davis moved to Hollywood in 1930, but her early films for Universal Studios were unsuccessful. She joined Warner Bros. in 1932 and established her career with several critically acclaimed performances. In 1937, she attempted to free herself from her contract and although she lost a well-publicized legal case, it marked the beginning of the most successful period of her career. Until the late 1940s, she was one of American cinema's most celebrated leading actresses, known for her forceful and intense style. Davis gained a reputation as a perfectionist who could be highly combative, and her confrontations with studio executives, film directors and costars were often reported. Her forthright manner, clipped vocal style and ubiquitous cigarette contributed to a public persona which has often been imitated and satirized.
Davis was the co-founder of the Hollywood Canteen, and was the first female president of the Academy of Motion Picture Arts and Sciences. She was the first actor to receive 10 Academy Award nominations and the first woman to receive a Lifetime Achievement Award from the American Film Institute. Her career went through several periods of decline, and she admitted that her success had often been at the expense of her personal relationships. Married four times, she was once widowed and thrice divorced, and raised her children as a single parent. Her final years were marred by a long period of ill health, but she continued acting until shortly before her death from breast cancer, with more than 100 film, television and theater roles to her credit.
In 1999, Davis was placed second, behind Katharine Hepburn, on the American Film Institute's list of the greatest female stars of all time.
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