A provocative glimpse into the mind of America's foremost drag queen includes the inside story of how he rose to stardom as a supermodel, plus beauty tips and more than fifty black-and-white photographs. Reprint.
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240 pages
Published
June 6th 1996
by Hyperion
(first published 1995)
This book is exactly what you think it is. It's not deep literature. It's not a psychological study. It is simply the story of a man who looks stunning in a dress.
RuPaul discusses his early years, working in the drag scene. He struggles emotionally and financially. Talks about his family. Talks about the success of his drag.
I was hoping there would be an in-depth explanation about all the secrets of the beauty of drag, but I suppose those secrets are the key to his success.
An easy read. No more
This book is exactly what you think it is. It's not deep literature. It's not a psychological study. It is simply the story of a man who looks stunning in a dress.
RuPaul discusses his early years, working in the drag scene. He struggles emotionally and financially. Talks about his family. Talks about the success of his drag.
I was hoping there would be an in-depth explanation about all the secrets of the beauty of drag, but I suppose those secrets are the key to his success.
An easy read. No more, no less. But entertaining.
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I seriously love RuPaul. Ru is a stunningly beautiful woman with the best pair of gams since Betty Grable. In this engaging chatty and glamorous (this book is overflowing with glamour thanks to an abundance of photos) autobiography he shares his path to fame and superstardom! Despite a few bumps, like working for Michael Alig and that VMA debacle Ru stays true to Ru and becomes the shiniest campiest diva since Liberace. How delightful it all is!
I must admit for years it has
Everybody say Love!
I seriously love RuPaul. Ru is a stunningly beautiful woman with the best pair of gams since Betty Grable. In this engaging chatty and glamorous (this book is overflowing with glamour thanks to an abundance of photos) autobiography he shares his path to fame and superstardom! Despite a few bumps, like working for Michael Alig and that VMA debacle Ru stays true to Ru and becomes the shiniest campiest diva since Liberace. How delightful it all is!
I must admit for years it has bothered me knowing that he worked for Michael Alig, it was such a relief to learn that RuPaul saw him for the disgustoid he truly is.
No matter how many Drag Superstars he crowns in the future RuPaul will always be the one and only true Drag Superstar of the world and be the most gorgeous one at that.
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I love Ru. I didn't think this was the best writing I've ever read, and I always like more salaciousness in my memoirs, but who cares- he's so great. For a man who makes a living wearing what some could consider to be a costume, he manages to be anything but fake.
This I read when I was in Hawaii a couple of years ago. Never has a book been so funny and inspiring at the same time. Ru really does have the best message behind his story and that is love.
All of a sudden I am obsessed with RuPaul. I suppose it started when I was twelve and saw him on the MTV Video Music Awards and first learned what a drag queen was. I still remember feeling starstruck and thinking, "WHO is that gorgeous giant woman!?" I guess that feeling has been dormant until now. It all began when I was recently home with a cold and started watching RuPaul's Drag Race. I was hooked and binge watched six seasons (currently getting through All Stars and waiting for season seven
All of a sudden I am obsessed with RuPaul. I suppose it started when I was twelve and saw him on the MTV Video Music Awards and first learned what a drag queen was. I still remember feeling starstruck and thinking, "WHO is that gorgeous giant woman!?" I guess that feeling has been dormant until now. It all began when I was recently home with a cold and started watching RuPaul's Drag Race. I was hooked and binge watched six seasons (currently getting through All Stars and waiting for season seven), made a RuPaul playlist on Spotify (and later added some songs by the contestants), found Lettin It All Hang Out even though it's out of print and bought tickets to Battle of the Seasons. For the past month my poor husband has had to listen to me recite lyrics and anecdotes from this book. He joked that Ru is my guru, and why the hell not? His brand is very calculated, but he has a delightfully positive message. It's all love and make-up!
This autobiography is still pretty relevant concerning RuPaul's brand. It's very much about how he grew to be the supermodel he is today and how hard he worked to get there. I was surprised that all of his mottos and slogans were things he'd been saying back then. The references and lists are obviously dated, but it's a charming look into the 90s. The book is written in a very open and chatty way, like you and Ru are just having a gabfest (and she's doing all the talking!) I thought it was interesting when he wrote about 28 generally being the most difficult year, it was something I related to. Mostly RuPaul just makes me smile, his positivity and beauty radiate!
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I loved reading about Rupaul came to fame. I loved how honest and down to earth he is about his childhood. I would have loved if there was more about his romantic life as I felt he avoided it until the very last page.
The book was written in 95, I would love to read something recent although from watching his reality show he hasn't changed.
Okay, I thought this book would be just a fun read, but Who has a better outlook on life than RuPaul?! Just love him!
Also, neat pics of him inside, including as a kid with a fro that takes two pages:)
"In this book I'm going to show you that I am just like everybody else. I hope when you are done reading this book, you'll put it down and say 'Oh my god! I've just read my own life story.' That's what I mean by letting it all hang out."
"One of the questions I am so often asked is, 'What do I call you? He or she?' And I say 'You can call me he, you can call me she, you can call me Regis and Kathie Lee, just so long as you call me.'"
"My immediate family, who were my role models
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"In this book I'm going to show you that I am just like everybody else. I hope when you are done reading this book, you'll put it down and say 'Oh my god! I've just read my own life story.' That's what I mean by letting it all hang out."
"One of the questions I am so often asked is, 'What do I call you? He or she?' And I say 'You can call me he, you can call me she, you can call me Regis and Kathie Lee, just so long as you call me.'"
"My immediate family, who were my role models and heroes, were all feminine. They were showing their emotions and wearing them in the same way they wore their clothes; when they were sad they cried, when something was funny they laughed out loud, and when something confused them they asked questions. I've always found strength in that, and comfort in my own femininity. I've always loved it, expressed it, lived it."
"I just couldn't shake the sensation that I didn't belong, and that this was not my real home. You know what? It isn't. Planet Earth is a high school from hell, and we are all just students here. When I realized that, I screamed out loud. I've always felt like a foreign exchange student, a resident alien. You come here for one thing only, and that is to learn. I used to spend a lot of my life waiting for the day I could quit school, but then I came to realize that so long as we are alive we never leave school. Life is a series of high schools, one after the other. And if you don't study, do your homework, and learn enough in one lifetime you just get sent back and have to do it all over again."
"Then when I was four I saw Diana Ross and the Supremes singing 'Baby Love' on the Ed Sullivan show. It wasn't their first time on, but my first time seeing them. It was love at first sight. I remember saying to myself, 'There, that one there, the one in the middle, that's me!' I recognized her energy as my energy. She looked so happy, so radiantly happy to be there, and it just blew me away... I've heard tell that when Oprah saw her she said, 'Colored girl on television! Colored girl on television!'"
"He said, 'Don't take life so seriously.'.. It took me a few years, but now I totally know what he means, and it's probably the most important thing anyone's ever told me. The point is that life is a banquet and most poor suckers are starving to death. To put your problems into proper perspective, you need to realize that as serious as they may seem to you, compared to the plight of the rest of the world, they're not half bad. Andy Warhol's tip when you get upset and freaked out about something is to sit back and say, "So what?' So what? because believe me, the rest of the Universe does not give a shit about your problems. So what? because in reality your problem is probably no big deal. And finally, So what? because there may not be anything that you can do about it- these things often have to unravel themselves, and there is nothing you can do other than have the grace and patience to sit them out."
"I've never been good with cliques. Cliques are all about people trying to find security in groups... People aren't really together in cliques, and the sense of security that they feel is just an illusion. Eventually, all cliques disintegrate. That's why I've always felt secure in my insecurity."
".. while marching up the street, I looked over the shoulder of the National Guardsmen and into the eyes of one of the Klansmen. And our eyes locked. I realized then that many of them probably liked Michael Jackson's Thriller album, Haagen-Dazs ice cream, and springtime in Georgia. What's the brouhaha? ... When I looked that person in the eyes I realized that I was looking at myself. He had found a way to bring attention to himself and validate himself. And so had I. No matter what uniform we may be waring, underneath it all we are all the same-- unique individuals, alone, aching to belong."
"During the taping of the 'Geraldo' show, I said there was more to clubbing than just kids dressing up. It was a sign of people being free spirits. I said, 'These bodies, this flesh and blood, they too are drag, because they are just temporary outfits for our eternal souls, Amen.'"
"There are so many rules imposed on us about what we should do, what we should say. Boys should be boys, and girls should be girls. But says who? Little boys should wear blue and little girls pink, you should not wear white shoes after Labor Day, you should not pick your nose. Tell me who says that? Where do these rules come from in the first place? Who says you can't bend over backward and eat bugs if you want to?"
I ordered this on Abebooks (at a pretty low price, considering how expensive it tends to be these days!) and I am so happy I did. This book was a very fun read, great anecdotes about clubbing in the 80s and 90s, and of course, really cool to see how Rupaul made it all happen for himself.
This book was surprisingly inspiring - a couple of real gems that made me glow with happiness. Worth a read - it's so fun! If you can find a copy....
I loved this book. Ru-Paul is a wonderful human. This bit of honesty was insightful, encouraging, and FUN. we are let in on some industry bits, a success story, humility and pride. Recommended pleasure reading.
really wanted to love this book, but there isn't too much i didn't already know within. plus, some of the self-aggrandizing, while expected, and even celebrated, got a teensy bit tiresome.
I love RuPaul! I read the entire autobiography in his voice and it incredible to learn about his life journey. "If you don't love yourself, how the hell you gonna love somebody else?"
I've been a RuPaul fan since I first saw her on television. I just thought she was a magical creature, and, as it turns out, she pretty much is! This book was definitely written in the mid-90s, but it's all Ru! The end gets a little bit preachy, but overall it's a great message from someone who could have turned out really messed up but who, instead, has an amazingly positive outlook on life, is a real go-getter, is truly uplifting, and is the glamazon supermodel of the world. Everybody say, "Lo
I've been a RuPaul fan since I first saw her on television. I just thought she was a magical creature, and, as it turns out, she pretty much is! This book was definitely written in the mid-90s, but it's all Ru! The end gets a little bit preachy, but overall it's a great message from someone who could have turned out really messed up but who, instead, has an amazingly positive outlook on life, is a real go-getter, is truly uplifting, and is the glamazon supermodel of the world. Everybody say, "Love!"
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Without getting too personal, my life has been in flux for some time. Reading RuPaul's book helped me put some aspects in perspective. Seriously. It's not a self-help book but he has good common sense advice for those lacking in that precious gene.
This was a welcome and fun read. There are some serious parts because his life hasn't always been fun but he sees the lessons in everything and applies what he's learned to having a joyful, healthy good time.
This was about you'd expect. There's a lot more to it than there is to
Workin' It!
, and I learned a lot about RuPaul's career than I didn't know. Because it's RuPaul, there's a lot of advice about the value of self-affirmation. There isn't, however, much about his personal relationships, besides those he had/has with his parents. He barely mentions any romance at all, so it does seem a little more superficial than it could have been.
The tone is so personal you feel like a voyeur. But very warm and positive in addition to being frank.
It also feels very young compared to the Ru you see on TV in Drag Race who rarely reveals personal things and is all refined-persona-on-display. It's got that "I'm in my mid 30s now and I have so much more figured out than I did in my 20s vibe.
Fabulous look at Ru's early life. I particularly relished the insight into his early adventures with a young Lady Bunny and others, tearing up the streets of Atlanta and Manhattan in the 80s. Also, the various lists of RuPaul's Favourite Things are a great look back at the early 90s camp zeitgeist.
I've always admired RuPaul, like when she wore that sequined Rebel flag dress. I also liked her song "supermodel". Over six feet tall, she has a very commanding presence! RuPaul tells her story of growing up in Atlanta and of being a drag queen. I can't get enough of her.
Very interesting to read about RuPaul's upbringing and history leading up to her breakout success in the 90s, but it's pretty glossy when it comes to Ru's personal life and it feels dated. An updated edition could probably fix these minor complaints, though!
This book let me pretend that I was hanging out with Ru, maybe drinking some coffee, conducting the world's most laid-back interview. I wish that had really happened, of course, but this book is the next best thing. LOVE HER.
This book is an amazing biography of RuPaul. From RuPauls early music with the groups RuPaul and the U-Hauls to wee wee Pole and RuPauls favorite movies this book doesn't quit. The pictures are great too.
kind of dated at this point, this was "Supermodel" era RuPaul. it was interesting enough, with some wisdom to share. not as exciting or funny as I think RuPaul is in front of the camera, however.
The hard work he put into his career is evident, while this book revealed his spiritual side. He is the whole package and deserves every success in the world.
RuPaul (born RuPaul Andre Charles) is an American drag performer, dance music singer, actor, and songwriter who gained fame in the 1990s; appearing in a wide variety of television programs, films, and musical albums. Though a catty attitude is often associated with drag queens, RuPaul intentionally displayed a "love one another" attitude to be set apart from them. Although primarily known for an e
RuPaul (born RuPaul Andre Charles) is an American drag performer, dance music singer, actor, and songwriter who gained fame in the 1990s; appearing in a wide variety of television programs, films, and musical albums. Though a catty attitude is often associated with drag queens, RuPaul intentionally displayed a "love one another" attitude to be set apart from them. Although primarily known for an extravagant drag queen persona, RuPaul has performed as a man in a number of roles, usually billed as RuPaul Charles.
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