Clarissa Dickson Wright, famously half of television's "Two Fat Ladies," was born into wealth and privilege. Her mother was an Australian heiress, her father was a brilliant surgeon to the royal family; as a child, shooting and hunting were the norm and pigeons were flown in from Cairo for supper. But Clarissa's father was also a tyrannical and violent drunk who used to be
Clarissa Dickson Wright, famously half of television's "Two Fat Ladies," was born into wealth and privilege. Her mother was an Australian heiress, her father was a brilliant surgeon to the royal family; as a child, shooting and hunting were the norm and pigeons were flown in from Cairo for supper. But Clarissa's father was also a tyrannical and violent drunk who used to beat her and force her to eat carrots with slugs still clinging to them. Clarissa was determined and clever, though, and her ambition led her to a career in the law. At the age of 21, she was the youngest woman ever to be called to the bar.
Disaster struck when her adored mother died suddenly. It was to lead to a mind- numbing decade of wild overindulgence during which she partied away her entire enormous inheritance. It was a long, hard road to recovery along which Clarissa finally faced her demons and turned to the one thing that had always brought her joy-cooking. Now at last she has found success, sobriety-and peace. With the stark honesty and the brilliant wit millions love her for, Clarissa recounts the tale of a life lived to extremes. A vivid and funny story, "Spilling the Beans" is as moving as it is a wonderful read.
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Hardcover
,
336 pages
Published
January 7th 2010
by Overlook Books
(first published 2007)
"All of us have something we can do, some more than others, but everyone has a natural gift; it is just a question of discovering it.”
I remember watching my first episode of
Two Fat Ladies
back in 2009. Netflix kept recommending it based on my interests, and back in the day when people had discs mailed, I took a big gamble by using all three of my movie slots for the show, on a weekend no less. I was bowled over by the unique concept of the show! What
didn’t
these women do?! They cooked, baked,
"All of us have something we can do, some more than others, but everyone has a natural gift; it is just a question of discovering it.”
I remember watching my first episode of
Two Fat Ladies
back in 2009. Netflix kept recommending it based on my interests, and back in the day when people had discs mailed, I took a big gamble by using all three of my movie slots for the show, on a weekend no less. I was bowled over by the unique concept of the show! What
didn’t
these women do?! They cooked, baked, rode motorcycles, hunted, fished, and were extremely knowledgable about history and politics.
Each time Clarissa went into one of her anecdotes, I always wished she’d go on and on, but then she’d casually return to the pheasant she was baking. “There’s a story there,” I’d think, especially when she neither drank nor smoked at the end of each episode, which was Jennifer’s signature end to the day a la
Now, Voyager.
In
Spilling the Beans
, Wright tells all, and I do mean everything! Thus far, she’s lived a monumental life! I can’t help but think of the Apostle Paul who said he’d enjoyed times of joy and plenty, and times of hunger and even shipwreck. Raised in a wealthy English family of Australian lineage, by age ten Clarissa had traveled the world. What many people didn’t realize was that at home, she was subjected to emotional and physical abuse, the effects of alcoholism.
I don’t want to go into too many specifics, but Wright’s path to discovery was very bumpy. Some of the chapters are entitled, “Sunk in Gin,” “Homeless” and “Dark Night of the Soul.” You get the idea. Alcoholism is a very real disease, and I so valued her authenticity in relating her experiences. No doubt she is an inspiration for people of all sorts, but especially to recovering addicts, which makes her dedication especially touching:
“To survivors everywhere, and to their friends who keep them sane.”
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I am not a keen cook, so was only vaguely aware of the highly successful television cooking duo, "Two Fat Ladies", who thundered around Britain on a motorbike creating meals in various unusual venues.
This is the story of one of that duo - Clarissa Dickson Wright.
She was born into a highly successful family, with perhaps with more than its far share of eccentrics. Her father was one of these. He was a lauded London surgeon, and also a violent alcoholic, and he was violent towards Clarissa, as wel
I am not a keen cook, so was only vaguely aware of the highly successful television cooking duo, "Two Fat Ladies", who thundered around Britain on a motorbike creating meals in various unusual venues.
This is the story of one of that duo - Clarissa Dickson Wright.
She was born into a highly successful family, with perhaps with more than its far share of eccentrics. Her father was one of these. He was a lauded London surgeon, and also a violent alcoholic, and he was violent towards Clarissa, as well as his wife. She says the only times she felt safe was when she was at boarding school, or her father was abroad. This book describes, with very little sentiment, the drastic upheavals of her childhood, as well as her closeness to her mother.
Clarissa was very bright, and went on to became a barrister to spite her her father, who wanted her to become a doctor. Then her mother died, and she descended into alcoholism. For the most part it seemed to be quite a jolly experience - she sure knew how to enjoy herself, and has always had lots of friends. She had also inherited a fairly huge family fortune, and she had fun working her way through that. But alcoholism has of course got a sting in the tail, however luxuriously you experience it, and eventually she became desperate. She booked into Promis - a well known drying-out centre for alcoholics and other addicts, which works on AA principles. I found this one of the most interesting parts of the book - it was inspiring to hear how much Promis and then the AA meetings helped her. Her levels of drinking had been extraordinary.
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At one stage, some time after being sober, it was found she had "sticky blood" (antiphospholipid antibody syndrome.) "They sent me off to a specialist, fearing my heart was affected....but it was in excellent condition, so one bemused specialist sent me on to a metabolist at St. Mary's Paddington. After various tests he asked me if I had spent much time in the malarial belt. I had not. This was, he told me, a condition found in people who had imbibed quantities of quinine over a prolonged period. 'Tonic water' I cried. 'My dear madam,' he said, with all the patronising arrogance of a senior hospital consultant, 'you would have to have drunk an awful lot.' Four pints a day for twelve years. Why? I was asked. Well, to go with the two pints of gin a day!
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But she got clean, and remained so for the rest of her life.
The last part of the book deals with her various adventures as a cook, and her passionate involvement with the Countryside Alliance, with its enthusiasm for fox hunting and hare coursing. She was also an extremely keen carnivore, eventually receiving the rare accolade of being asked to become a member of The Worshipful Company of Butchers. None of this appealed to my vegetarian heart...but I ploughed on. Her story is so fascinating, and you cannot help but want to cheer her on, for her sheer courage, tenacity and bravado. It was also good for me to hear the other side of the story. It has made me want to do a bit more research into fox hunting for instance.
All in all a wonderful book. Clarissa died in 2014. She led an extraordinary life, and she writes about it superbly well. One last thing - her dedication for the book reads "To survivors everywhere, and to their friends who keep them sane." I think it works both ways. Clarissa was obviously a wonderful friend to many people, and I have no doubt that they miss her enormously.["br"]>["br"]>["br"]>["br"]>["br"]>["br"]>["br"]>["br"]>["br"]>["br"]>["br"]>["br"]>
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I was familiar with the author from the Two Fat Ladies cooking program, so recently listened to her narrate
Clarissa's England
, which was terrific. After that, I was truly intrigued by her life story, but the audio version comes highly abridged, so I read a print copy instead -- what a ride! Clarissa squanders early advantages many couldn't begin to imagine for the life of such a dedicated alcoholic it's amazing she made it through; at one point she's diagnosed with quinine poisoning from all th
I was familiar with the author from the Two Fat Ladies cooking program, so recently listened to her narrate
Clarissa's England
, which was terrific. After that, I was truly intrigued by her life story, but the audio version comes highly abridged, so I read a print copy instead -- what a ride! Clarissa squanders early advantages many couldn't begin to imagine for the life of such a dedicated alcoholic it's amazing she made it through; at one point she's diagnosed with quinine poisoning from all the gin-and-tonics (six pints a day!) she'd knocked back. Her television stardom was almost a fluke, as she and Jennifer didn't really think that the Two Fat Ladies proposal would be picked up by a producer. If you're reading the book primarily for that experience, she covers it in a couple of chapters near the end. I had no idea Jennifer was twenty years older then Clarissa, nor (sadly) that she was a very rigid Pre-Vatican II Catholic, pining for the Good Old Days. I can see why they found the show exhausting as each episode had to be shot three times! The final section deals mostly with hunting issues and such, which as an American reader I found very difficult to follow.
I can see why the audiobook was so heavily edited, since many, many names are thrown about; I think I honestly would've lost patience with that format after a while with an unabridged version. The print book itself was a cracking good read, with Clarissa's brutal honesty, and lack of self-pity, carrying the darkest hours. I was a pleasantly surprised that her sense of humor works as well on the page as it does in spoken form.
From a privileged beginning, the author suffered huge family problems in her formative years. Having 'gone off the rails' early in a promising career at the bar, she preferred to spend time in the bar. This book outlines her fight back to normality, her unplanned friendship with the other 'fat lady' Jennifer Paterson, and her passion for the countryside.
Wright was one half of the TV cooks "Two Fat Ladies". This is her autobiography and it's fascinating to see how much of her early life paralleled mine: a family connection to Singapore, an abusive home life, a best friend in boarding school called Caroline :-). Clarissa is unflinchingly honest about her life, growing up in a highly dysfunctional family, becoming a lawyer just to spite her father, her 6-year long descent into alcoholism after losing her mother and the love of her life and how she
Wright was one half of the TV cooks "Two Fat Ladies". This is her autobiography and it's fascinating to see how much of her early life paralleled mine: a family connection to Singapore, an abusive home life, a best friend in boarding school called Caroline :-). Clarissa is unflinchingly honest about her life, growing up in a highly dysfunctional family, becoming a lawyer just to spite her father, her 6-year long descent into alcoholism after losing her mother and the love of her life and how she dragged herself back (with the help of her loyal friends) to become a highly successful bookseller, TV cook and presenter. She and Jennifer Paterson created a cooking show that was hilarious, innovative and educational. You may not like or agree with her opinions or politics but when Wright died just a couple of weeks ago she was sorely missed by a great many people.
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Despite her difficult childhood and alcoholism this is an upbeat autobiography, ending on a positive note: "Believe me on one thing: I have a splendidly enjoyable life"
"All of us are an accumulation of the traits, genetic tendencies, geographicals and peculiarities of our forebears. These are the ingredients that we and the adventures and misfortunes of our lives process into the finished dish that becomes ourselves."
Not the greatest writing style, but definitely a very gripping read.
What a colourful life. She certainly didn't wait for the storm to pass to dance in the rain. What strength it must have taken to get over her addiction and lead a happy life eventually.
Clarissa of "Two Fat Ladies" fame has written a very good and entertaining autobiography. This is an insightful look into the devastating effects of alcoholism through many generations of her family and her own downward spiral into this disease as well as the climb out of it to recovery.
She grew up in a privileged English family but in perpetual fear of her father and his physical abuse of her and her mother. The youngest of the children, she has a lot to bear and feels very responsible for supp
Clarissa of "Two Fat Ladies" fame has written a very good and entertaining autobiography. This is an insightful look into the devastating effects of alcoholism through many generations of her family and her own downward spiral into this disease as well as the climb out of it to recovery.
She grew up in a privileged English family but in perpetual fear of her father and his physical abuse of her and her mother. The youngest of the children, she has a lot to bear and feels very responsible for supporting her mother.
Clarissa studied law and was a successful barrister, lived the high life and seems to know anyone who is anyone in London! Alcohol took hold and finally destroyed her physically, mentally and professionally. Eventually as a form of recovery she worked part time in a bookshop specializing in cook books and her foodie career was born (unbeknownst to her). One thing lead to another and eventually, once she was running her own bookshop in Scotland, she was approached to star in the "TFL" series. Things seem to snowball. Clarissa became a passionate advocate for the farmers of the land and in educating people on fresh, locally grown produce.
A very readable and funny book which I thoroughly enjoyed.
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Whether your interests are the history of farmers' markets and English cooking, the arguments for hunting in Britain, religious faith, the existence of ghosts, the demon drink and AA's 12 Steps program, recovering from child abuse, or simply insider knowledge about various politicians and the royal family, this book has it all. The author shows herself to be someone of considerable intelligence, sense of humour and pluck and this book should be read for more reasons than just that she is well kn
Whether your interests are the history of farmers' markets and English cooking, the arguments for hunting in Britain, religious faith, the existence of ghosts, the demon drink and AA's 12 Steps program, recovering from child abuse, or simply insider knowledge about various politicians and the royal family, this book has it all. The author shows herself to be someone of considerable intelligence, sense of humour and pluck and this book should be read for more reasons than just that she is well known as the one of the Two Fat Ladies.
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An unflinchingly honest account of her life from Clarissa Dickson Wright, one half of The Two Fat Ladies. Her childhood was, quite frankly, awful but she never uses it as an excuse for the many things that went wrong in her life. I thoroughly enjoyed this book, her character and determination shine through and I feel full of admiration for the way she has picked herself up and started again on numerous occasions. Well worth reading if you like a well written, good autobiography.
This is a very entertaining auto biography...I was always fascinated but the PBS Show Two Fat Ladies and now the story of Clarissa ...she was a wounded child and smart ...very smart...growing up privileged in England is a different type of life ...fox hunts,boarding school and all that.
She was a crazy alcoholic but by 40 became sober and really recovered ....the end of book bogs down on Brotains stoppage of fox hunts..which she was pro on
Overall a light summer read.
A frank autobiography by the surviving "Fat Lady". She pulls few punches as she writes about her abusive childhood, her debauched twenties and thirties, her recovery from alcoholism and her eventual television fame.
CD-W writes just as she speaks - you can almost hear her voice as you read. Unfortunately, the book suffers from poor or nonexistent copy-editing. There are errors throughout - not what I would have expected from Hodder & Stoughton.
A very frank autobiography by the surviving Fat Lady chronicling her passage from disfunctional childhood to early legal success followed by her sinking into total alcoholic dissipation when she blew her 2.8 million pound inheritance and descended to the depths followed by her drying-out and rehabilitation leading to TV fame. She is a remarkable woman with a deep love of the countryside and tells a good story.
Well written, frank, amusing, shocking, gossipy. I did briefly mourn over her lost 2,8 million pounds and career in law (she did have talent!) but heck why - Clarissa didn't seem to cry over spilled beans. A lesson we should all learn.
The campaigning for fox hunting went on a bit, but otherwise no objections.
I am surprised to say that I found this book quite gripping. What an extraordinary life! I felt that it very much demonstrated that money does not bring happiness and it is clear that her terrible childhood contributed massively to her destructive alcohol addiction. It was actually quite inspiring to see how she turned her life around. I found the name dropping at times a little bit difficult to believe but I guess if you move in those circles then you just end up constantly mixing with people m
I am surprised to say that I found this book quite gripping. What an extraordinary life! I felt that it very much demonstrated that money does not bring happiness and it is clear that her terrible childhood contributed massively to her destructive alcohol addiction. It was actually quite inspiring to see how she turned her life around. I found the name dropping at times a little bit difficult to believe but I guess if you move in those circles then you just end up constantly mixing with people most of us only encounter via the media! The book goes along at a fast but fairly detailed pace and I was quite disappointed to have finished reading it. Like other readers I was amazed to discover that Jennifer was 20 years older and I was saddened when Clarissa died earlier last month.
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Very frank autobiography. Often quite painful to read. There's much about her lifestyle now that I disagree with, e.g., support of blood sports, but I can't help but have enormous respect for what she has overcome personally to reach this stage in her life.
Clarissa certainly had a colorful and sometimes tragic life. She triumphed over adversity and always kept her sense of humor. This memoir made for very interesting reading.
This was a hugely interesting read. She lived such a fascinating life, very sad in parts but she made the absolute best of her intelligence and she became happy, in no small part due to her strength of character. I bought this book because I had enjoyed her robust no nonsense style when cooking and this is also evident in her writing, which is excellent, brimming with colourful phrases and not shying away from the parts of life some may be too squeamish to discuss.
It made me want to wear tweed a
This was a hugely interesting read. She lived such a fascinating life, very sad in parts but she made the absolute best of her intelligence and she became happy, in no small part due to her strength of character. I bought this book because I had enjoyed her robust no nonsense style when cooking and this is also evident in her writing, which is excellent, brimming with colourful phrases and not shying away from the parts of life some may be too squeamish to discuss.
It made me want to wear tweed and eat more butter.
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I am happy I finished reading Clarissa Dickson Wright's (more presicely Clarissa Theresa Philomena Aileen Mary Josephine Agnes Elsie Trilby Louise Esmerelda Dickson Wright's) book titled Spilling The Beans. The book is the autobiography of a lady with a very unusual path of life. She was born in the middle of the nineties into a noble British family just to sink to the deepest depths later on. From there she could emerge again as one of the most famous chefs in the UK - actually that is how I to
I am happy I finished reading Clarissa Dickson Wright's (more presicely Clarissa Theresa Philomena Aileen Mary Josephine Agnes Elsie Trilby Louise Esmerelda Dickson Wright's) book titled Spilling The Beans. The book is the autobiography of a lady with a very unusual path of life. She was born in the middle of the nineties into a noble British family just to sink to the deepest depths later on. From there she could emerge again as one of the most famous chefs in the UK - actually that is how I took note of her, as I was watching a TV series made with her and another lady. The two of them were the "two fat ladies" cooking wonderfully the kind of food the mainstream would consider utterly unhealthy today.
I think the book was made partly to set an example on how one can fight dependencies and come back to life, that is to show another success story of the kind. Though the sensitive and human traits of the lady are certainly depicted, the rudeness of her personality along with lack of any feminity are far from being appealing the least bit. For me her story has the message of how to make youself the least miserable once you cannot help being miserable anymore. The good news is that her English is so distinctive that hopefully by the time you are done with the book, she will probably have improved your language skills as well :)
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This really is a fascinating and uncompromising autobiography. Clarissa is very honest about her difficult and often violent family life growing up, and later her own alcoholism. Her life during the 1970's and 80's seemed a constant round of parties, pubs and drinking buddies and at one point Clarissa admits that the Falklands war had passed her by - she'd had no idea it had happened. Although this does make for difficult reading on one level - it was strangely fascinating on another and it is p
This really is a fascinating and uncompromising autobiography. Clarissa is very honest about her difficult and often violent family life growing up, and later her own alcoholism. Her life during the 1970's and 80's seemed a constant round of parties, pubs and drinking buddies and at one point Clarissa admits that the Falklands war had passed her by - she'd had no idea it had happened. Although this does make for difficult reading on one level - it was strangely fascinating on another and it is part of what makes this a real page turner. I'm afraid I left very cold by Clarrissa's rabid support of hare coursing, and fox hunting, granted it is a way of life for many people and it does get people's passions up, but it is not for me - and never will be - and so reading about it spoilt the later stages of the book for me a bit. Over all though I enjoyed this book very much, Clarissa Dickson Wright, writes well and honestly, and she has certainly packed her life full of incident - all of which makes for very entertaining reading. I also really enjoyed reading about Christine Coleman, Clarissa's good friend for many years (someone I have come to know through bookcrossing of which she is a great supporter) - how funny to meet someone you know in the pages of a book.
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I had my eye on this around Christmas but it didn't appear in my stocking so I was very pleased to find it on the shelf of a local library.
Well - I'm glad I didn't buy this one. It wasn't written particularly well, but was fairly interesting. What did come across strongly was the fact that she is of a different era and a different class, and isn't very good at pitching her story to her audience. We were meant to know what arctic convoys and Grenfell alluded to, yet she felt the need to explain
I had my eye on this around Christmas but it didn't appear in my stocking so I was very pleased to find it on the shelf of a local library.
Well - I'm glad I didn't buy this one. It wasn't written particularly well, but was fairly interesting. What did come across strongly was the fact that she is of a different era and a different class, and isn't very good at pitching her story to her audience. We were meant to know what arctic convoys and Grenfell alluded to, yet she felt the need to explain what O levels were! Yes, it did highlight the fact that coming from a 'privileged' background doesn't make you immune to life's afflictions, but the constant name-dropping of the nation's movers and shakers proved a little tedious.
I did find the sections on AA and 12 step programme interesting, and hadn't realised the strong religious aspect to them. I was also intrigued by Dickson-Wright's belief in miracles and other strong Catholic experiences.
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I actually "heard" the book and the author/narrator's accent makes the experience very intimate like a conversation over a cup of tea. The first "half hour" at listening to her story as a child, as a young and rebellious woman was captivating. She holds your attention without saturating your interest; you did not want more, you just savor every moment... until you get to her 40s and the makings of the "Two Fat Ladies". Then, it muddles.
Splendid! Witty while sharing her life of woes and achievements, Clarissa is clever and her typical British humor is brilliantly delivered - this autobiography is totally engrossing. Sadly, the heiress, barrister, alcoholic, entrepreneur, bon vivant, and woman best known for her role as the sidecar-occupying half of the Two Fat Ladies passed away in March. While she may have passed on, her larger than life (pun intended) life story is not to be missed.
I was given this book by an American friend who has spent quite a bit of time in the U.K and is also a foodie which you pretty much have to be to understand this book.
In addition, I have never seen the BBC English program called "Two Fat Ladies" about two English woman who scour the English countryside talking about all things related to food (farming, hunting and restaurants) and so therefore this book was not an enjoyable read but to hear the story of this woman, Clarissa Dickson Wright and he
I was given this book by an American friend who has spent quite a bit of time in the U.K and is also a foodie which you pretty much have to be to understand this book.
In addition, I have never seen the BBC English program called "Two Fat Ladies" about two English woman who scour the English countryside talking about all things related to food (farming, hunting and restaurants) and so therefore this book was not an enjoyable read but to hear the story of this woman, Clarissa Dickson Wright and her incredibly priveleged childhood brought up by up a loving mother, a tyrannical, abusive and alcoholic father and how after the death of her parents, she had a huge inheritance which she literally drank away over the course of a decade and drank herself into bankruptcy and how cooking saved her life was of some interest.
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Having found the TV series, "Two Fat Ladies" enormously entertaining and interesting, I enjoyed reading Clarissa Dickson Wright's autobiography, "Spilling the Beans". It the tale of a life lived to the hilt, the bad, the good, the adventurous, the heartbreaking. She survived physical abuse by her famous surgeon father, and 10 years of alcoholism and promiscuous sex, and finally through hard work, good friends, and AA, managed to lick her demons. Much of the book is about her wild years and it en
Having found the TV series, "Two Fat Ladies" enormously entertaining and interesting, I enjoyed reading Clarissa Dickson Wright's autobiography, "Spilling the Beans". It the tale of a life lived to the hilt, the bad, the good, the adventurous, the heartbreaking. She survived physical abuse by her famous surgeon father, and 10 years of alcoholism and promiscuous sex, and finally through hard work, good friends, and AA, managed to lick her demons. Much of the book is about her wild years and it ends with her devotion to the countryside and blood sports. She is a larger-than life person, personality as well as size, and I will look at the cooking programs again with delight. Her partner, Jennifer, for me the quirkiest of the two, sadly died of cancer very unexpectedly, an admirable character Two funny ladies.
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Interesting - I didn't understand a lot of the references to English/Scottish life but it was interesting to get the insight into the roller coaster that was Clarissa's life. I really loved the TFL show and both Clarissa and Jennifer reminded me of my mother in a lot of ways - the love of knowledge and the somewhat quirky was about themselves. I wish the show was free on Amazon Prime - but maybe one day I'll treat myself to the
Clarissa Theresa Philomena Aileen Mary Josephine Agnes Elsie Trilby Louise Esmerelda Dickson Wright is an English celebrity chef and food historian who is best known as one half, along with Jennifer Paterson, of the Two Fat Ladies. Having trained as a lawyer, at the age of 21, Dickson Wright passed her exams and became the country's youngest barrister. She is also one of only two women in England
Clarissa Theresa Philomena Aileen Mary Josephine Agnes Elsie Trilby Louise Esmerelda Dickson Wright is an English celebrity chef and food historian who is best known as one half, along with Jennifer Paterson, of the Two Fat Ladies. Having trained as a lawyer, at the age of 21, Dickson Wright passed her exams and became the country's youngest barrister. She is also one of only two women in England to become a guild butcher.
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