Mary Berry has shared her skills, experience and tips through a varied and fascinating career, yet few people know the professional and personal story behind her success. Now, in her inspiring, charming and life-affirming memoir, Mary tells us about her life - a life in some ways reassuringly ordinary, yet at the same time completely extraordinary.
I first 'met' Mary Berry when Pamela, my wife, give me a copy of her Complete Cookbook as a Christmas present in 2011. I had been advised by both my GP and my employers' medical advisor to take up a hobby, and I chose cooking! Since then I have purchased 2 further Mary Berry cookbooks and 2 cookbooks where she has collaborated with Lucy Young.
Now why do I tell you this? Simply because the Mary Berry I 'met' professionally in her cookbooks, is the self-same Mary Berry I have now 'met' personally
I first 'met' Mary Berry when Pamela, my wife, give me a copy of her Complete Cookbook as a Christmas present in 2011. I had been advised by both my GP and my employers' medical advisor to take up a hobby, and I chose cooking! Since then I have purchased 2 further Mary Berry cookbooks and 2 cookbooks where she has collaborated with Lucy Young.
Now why do I tell you this? Simply because the Mary Berry I 'met' professionally in her cookbooks, is the self-same Mary Berry I have now 'met' personally in her autobiography!
Recipe for Life is simply authentic Mary Berry! Honest, forthright, open, self-effacing, modest, fun, intriguing and downright delightful! Her personal encounter with polio and her dealing with the untimely and sudden death of her son are dealt with in the book quite matter-of-factly but empathetically. Pure Mary Berry!
Being a Christian and follower of Jesus Christ myself, I was pleased to see that on at least two occasions in the book she referred to both her own and her son's and daughter-in-law's Christian faith. It is warming to know that faith in Jesus Christ is important to Mary Berry.
Only one comment that I would like to make, and perhaps could be considered for future editions ... perhaps a final page 'life recipe', would make a fitting epilogue to what is a most gratifying read!
A truly 5-star read and heartedly recommended to all!
PS. And if I had one wish, it would be to meet Mary Berry in person and enjoy a cup of tea with her!
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How can anyone give Mary Berry a bad book review? Having watched many a series of “Bake Off”, I’ve come to love her pithy comments and excitement when she’s digging in to a piece of cake – a trait I can certainly relate to! So it’s with much curiosity that I picked up Mary Berry’s biography to find out more about her chosen food path.
Mary is self deprecating and humble throughout, and with every chapter to read, a more whole, charming picture is created of what a human dynamo Mary is. From contr
How can anyone give Mary Berry a bad book review? Having watched many a series of “Bake Off”, I’ve come to love her pithy comments and excitement when she’s digging in to a piece of cake – a trait I can certainly relate to! So it’s with much curiosity that I picked up Mary Berry’s biography to find out more about her chosen food path.
Mary is self deprecating and humble throughout, and with every chapter to read, a more whole, charming picture is created of what a human dynamo Mary is. From contracting polio as a young child to losing a loved one, Mary exhibits her “carry on” mentality and just gets on with it. An admirable trait that we can all attempt to put more of in our day to day!
The best part of the book for me, however, was reading her recipes throughout the book, as she talks about their origin and why they are special to her. Mary’s recipes have long been go-to’s for me, as it’s pretty much idiot proof. And as she says, why make recipe difficult? Create something with what you’ve most likely got in the pantry. No need for that fancy hard to get ingredients! So the recipes in the book hold a special place in her story, and feels all the more special that she is sharing them with us.
A delightful insight into a pioneer into the world of celebrity chefs. Imagine Jamie Oliver having thousands of people in his house every year for intensive cooking sessions!
The bits on “Bake Off’ are small, but the rest of the book more than makes up for the lack of gossip from the set. Mary Berry is certainly an extraordinary woman!
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I loved this book because her positive mental attitude suffuses every page. A book to chase away the gremlins, it is a perfect 'Mum knows best' sort of read. Faced with difficulties and tribulations Mary picks herself up, keeps calm and carries on. If you are in need of a pick me up then read this. Shedding light on the '60s from her point of view, allowing us into her beautiful homes, and clearly outlining her moral codes of conduct, she has an unashamed way of celebrating her talent and those
I loved this book because her positive mental attitude suffuses every page. A book to chase away the gremlins, it is a perfect 'Mum knows best' sort of read. Faced with difficulties and tribulations Mary picks herself up, keeps calm and carries on. If you are in need of a pick me up then read this. Shedding light on the '60s from her point of view, allowing us into her beautiful homes, and clearly outlining her moral codes of conduct, she has an unashamed way of celebrating her talent and those of her family in a way that lets us all join in. Well done Mary!
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This was just like having Mary sitting in my kitchen telling me about her life and sharing some photos, and it's a fascinating story.
I was absolutely blown away to find that Mary was a working mum in the 60s and 70s (when it really wasn't as common as it is now). She experienced exactly the same guilt and stresses as I have about this - which in a way is slightly depressing (have we really not travelled at all in forty years?) - although she was able to afford nannies and top boarding schools s
This was just like having Mary sitting in my kitchen telling me about her life and sharing some photos, and it's a fascinating story.
I was absolutely blown away to find that Mary was a working mum in the 60s and 70s (when it really wasn't as common as it is now). She experienced exactly the same guilt and stresses as I have about this - which in a way is slightly depressing (have we really not travelled at all in forty years?) - although she was able to afford nannies and top boarding schools so it wasn't
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the same when her children got older as it was for me.
Mary's background - in professional home cooking, rather than cheffing - was unknown to me but certainly explains the lack of fuss which hallmarks her recipes. And she was on the team for the Hamlyn All-Colour Cookbook! A version of this was the first cookbook I bought. It's now rather stained and crumpled but it's still in regular use here 25 years later.
Mary is, of course, far from strident or outspoken in her views, but they come across clearly, and there is gentle humour here and lots (and lots) of love. Her story is also at times very moving.
Obviously you should read this if you are a Mary Berry or Bake Off fan (although there's not much inside info on Bake Off). Also read it if you fancy some time travel back to 70s TV, or are interested in Agas or social history (yes, really - although I would have liked a bit more detail about the arrival of tin foil in the home kitchen armoury). AND, if you are a GirlsOwn girl, Mary's career in the 1950s and 60s is entirely the stuff of career novels for girls ('Mary Becomes a Home Economist' sort of thing). I had great fun trying to decide which Chalet School girl could have followed this career path - it would have been somebody between Bride Bettany's set and Mary-Lou's gang, so I thought Carola (who does after all have an association with dommy sci) might have been the one.
All in all, I thoroughly enjoyed my evening in Mary's company.
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This was our book clubs February read, and, to be honest I was a little disappointed when they were handed out. I’m not a fan of the Great British Bake off, or any cooking programme for that matter so this book would not have made it onto my reading list through my own choice.
To me it felt like it was written by her because I could hear her voice as I was reading, she does say that when she started out in magazines that she was told to write how she speaks, and I did get that sense throughout t
This was our book clubs February read, and, to be honest I was a little disappointed when they were handed out. I’m not a fan of the Great British Bake off, or any cooking programme for that matter so this book would not have made it onto my reading list through my own choice.
To me it felt like it was written by her because I could hear her voice as I was reading, she does say that when she started out in magazines that she was told to write how she speaks, and I did get that sense throughout the book.
It was lovely to read how although not academically gifted once she found something she loved she went all out to get what she wanted, (but let’s face it, she was from an upper middle class family, she wasn't really ever going to fail in what she did), and being the 60’s everything was possible, (or so it seems to us now). At times it was a bit “Jolly Hockey Sticks” but that’s her background and I was ok with that, on the whole she came across as a lovely lady, calm and kind with a no nonsense attitude, one that likes things done properly, and she wouldn't be shy of telling you if you got it wrong. That’s not a criticism of her though.
I loved the photos throughout the book and at the end of each chapter there is a recipe, which is a nice touch,
all in all I was very pleasantly surprised with this book, I really enjoyed it. But it hasn't changed my mind about watching the Great British Bake Off or cooking programmes!!
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Being an Aussie, I really had no idea who Mary Berry was until discovering the Great British Bake Off. (That show is addictive as chocolate cake). So when I saw this on the shelf at the local library, I snatched it up quickly.
Mary does not hold back especially when it comes to personal tragedy or how hard it has been to balance family and career, particularly in an era where you were expected to be the 'good little woman'. Sure there are moments where she lost me but then she gets back on track
Being an Aussie, I really had no idea who Mary Berry was until discovering the Great British Bake Off. (That show is addictive as chocolate cake). So when I saw this on the shelf at the local library, I snatched it up quickly.
Mary does not hold back especially when it comes to personal tragedy or how hard it has been to balance family and career, particularly in an era where you were expected to be the 'good little woman'. Sure there are moments where she lost me but then she gets back on track and things are good again. There are also some lovely recipes at the end of each chapter.
I love this woman even more now. She certainly is a British treasure. Now Mary, how are you at making gluten free goodies?
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Great book. I thought it would be similar to the tv programme about her life, but it was much more, very enjoyable, at times I laughed and at times I could have cried. An amazing woman!
I am glad I read this book and enjoyed learning more about Mary and her life. Being afan of hers and bake off I expected to enjoy it. I was surprized at some of her attutides but it's important to remember she is a product of her generation and I appreciate her honesty! This one stand out as an example of her attitude "I find it incredible that people will go to their GP's surgery for the most minor things; they seem to think it is part of their rights, but it's a waste of everyone's time" (Oh M
I am glad I read this book and enjoyed learning more about Mary and her life. Being afan of hers and bake off I expected to enjoy it. I was surprized at some of her attutides but it's important to remember she is a product of her generation and I appreciate her honesty! This one stand out as an example of her attitude "I find it incredible that people will go to their GP's surgery for the most minor things; they seem to think it is part of their rights, but it's a waste of everyone's time" (Oh Mary!)
I really liked the inclusion of recipies too. I would say it they could have done a better job of proof reading as there were quite a few errors.
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An excellent autobiography, up there with Clare Balding's "My Animals and Other Family."
The writing is honest and down-to-earth, and feels as if it is written by her personally, not a ghostwriter. She's frank about her ambition and occasional ruthlessness, modest about her many achievements, and generous in her acknowledgement of those who helped her, both professionally and in her personal life.
Her energy is astounding. How hard she worked to juggle career and motherhood, never compromising eit
An excellent autobiography, up there with Clare Balding's "My Animals and Other Family."
The writing is honest and down-to-earth, and feels as if it is written by her personally, not a ghostwriter. She's frank about her ambition and occasional ruthlessness, modest about her many achievements, and generous in her acknowledgement of those who helped her, both professionally and in her personal life.
Her energy is astounding. How hard she worked to juggle career and motherhood, never compromising either.
The description of the loss of her son is very moving.
An amazing and thoroughly enjoyable book by Mary Berry. Mary has had a beautiful and graceful life of home cook extraordinaire, which continues today.
Her love of good home cooking has led her through a rich tapestry of careers which she has coupled with a varied laid back lifestyle at home.
At the end of each chapter there is a fairly simple recipe that could be used as a families dinner or for entertaining friends and family.
I really admire hardworking women such as Mary Berry and I find her rea
An amazing and thoroughly enjoyable book by Mary Berry. Mary has had a beautiful and graceful life of home cook extraordinaire, which continues today.
Her love of good home cooking has led her through a rich tapestry of careers which she has coupled with a varied laid back lifestyle at home.
At the end of each chapter there is a fairly simple recipe that could be used as a families dinner or for entertaining friends and family.
I really admire hardworking women such as Mary Berry and I find her really inspiring.
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I do not read a lot of autobiographies but I do like to read about people I like. I had heard briefly bits about Mary Berrys so decided as The Great British Bake Off was starting another series it would be the pefect companion. It was as though Mary was simply sat next to me recalling her story over a pot of tea and a Victoria sandwich. Yes she may be posh and jolly hockey sticks and her background is apparent but she seems a lovely down to earth lady. It was lovely to folllow her life through t
I do not read a lot of autobiographies but I do like to read about people I like. I had heard briefly bits about Mary Berrys so decided as The Great British Bake Off was starting another series it would be the pefect companion. It was as though Mary was simply sat next to me recalling her story over a pot of tea and a Victoria sandwich. Yes she may be posh and jolly hockey sticks and her background is apparent but she seems a lovely down to earth lady. It was lovely to folllow her life through the decades enjoying her successes but experiencing her heartbreaks. I learnt a lot too as I had always thought she had arthritis when in fact she had suffered polio as a child. The loss of her son was also devastating but the way she continued with her life and battled through shows the kind of strong person she is. I love the way she describes herself in later years as a style icon being trendy with her flowery bomber jacket. My granny was called Mary and loved to bake so I also felt a strong connection in that aspect and my great grandad was a Master Baker. I only wish I could bake..still you never know until you try ..I need to practise I may have hidden skills! On the whole its been a very lovely pleasant read...it was well written and easy to read and given me some hope and encouragement to get through dark times and the strength to try and be successful...so that one day if I write my own autobiography people would read it and say Wow.
A lovely book and a very charming lady. Her mother kept going until she was 105! Mary is around 80 and the experts tell us sugar and cakes are so bad for us? Long live Mary Berry .
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I'm not a regular reader of autobiographies (having only read Clare Balding's and Cybill Shepherd's) but chose this as Mary Berry seemed like an interesting person, the book is broken up with recipes and includes LOTS of photos (in an interview she said she purposely included loads of photos as this is what she likes to see in autobiographies). But, I wasn't that fussed on the book and feel a bit disloyal saying that as Mary seems like such a kind person. There's usually a rush to prepare autobi
I'm not a regular reader of autobiographies (having only read Clare Balding's and Cybill Shepherd's) but chose this as Mary Berry seemed like an interesting person, the book is broken up with recipes and includes LOTS of photos (in an interview she said she purposely included loads of photos as this is what she likes to see in autobiographies). But, I wasn't that fussed on the book and feel a bit disloyal saying that as Mary seems like such a kind person. There's usually a rush to prepare autobiographies for the run-up to Christmas and although this book must have needed a lot of research (it includes sections written by family and friends), there were some proof-reading errors that made me wonder whether it had been written on a tight deadline. Plus, I found it hard to enjoy the style of writing. I think it was written with assistance (nothing wrong with that) based on conversations with Mary and I found the flow a bit stilted at the start. However, I loved the way Clare Balding's was laid out with each chapter hinged on a family pet so perhaps I've been spoilt.
It's really interesting how successful Mary Berry has been and reading her book shows just how important circumstance and background is with this. Mary comes from a well-off background but struggled at school (apart from Domestic Science obviously!) and it's striking how were she from a poor background how different her life could have been. That said, it's obvious she's worked really hard to achieve success but like she says, if you find something you love then you will excel at it. I just haven't found my passion yet! Because I'm in a bit of a rage about how if you're privately educated you have a great chance of financial success I did find it a bit odd that Mary often talks about how she had a 'normal' upbringing. She's from a very affluent background so I think what she means is that her family are very down-to-earth. This is reflected in the book as she strikes me as a down-to-earth person, albeit a very wealthy one!
There were lots of references I liked in this book and here they are:
"Dad would issues [party] guests with secret instructions: he might tell one to paint one of their fingernails red, another to wear glasses with one of the lenses popped out or to come wearing odd shoes. Then, as everyone arrived, all the guests had to go round and try to work out what thing was different about each person." > What an ace game! As is 'flip flap and ting-a-ling' where you count letter boxes and phone boxes on car journeys.
"I find it incredible that people will go to their GP's surgery for the most minor things; they seem to think it is part of their rights, but it's a waste of everyone's time" > I like that she gives her opinion and seeing her on Bake Off it's hard to remember that she's in her 70s but there are a lot of points in the book where you realise that she is a product of her generation. Mind, wasting NHS time is a bugbear of mine.
"I don't ever create recipes that are going to take awfully long to make, because people have other things to do with their time". I really love the way she wants people to succeed with cooking and doesn't want people to be slaving away in the kitchen for hours. This was a revelation to me because I HATE cooking and would live on thin air if possible just to save having to prepare food. I might even borrow one of her cookery books from the library.
"In the [freezer magazine I wrote for] we would give advice on what to freeze ... and recommend that people keep a list of their freezer contents - so much more organised that we are today!" Oh Mary, Mary, Mary. Take a trip to my freezer where not only will you find a list of foods by drawer but everything is neatly organised in stacking boxes and bags of food are frozen flat so they can stack together.
"Looking back, I don't feel that I was the most brilliant mother. I was always very good at giving my children the right food .... but it is one of my greatest regrets in life that I didn't spend more time listening to them or playing with them." Note to self: Mary says to play more
"I have never done any deep-fried recipe in any of my books and never will do, because who wants a kitchen full of smoke?" Note to self: must highlight this paragraph and send it to all my family members who berate me for not frying because I don't like the smell of fatty foods in the house. Mary said I'm right!
Grow a 'picking bed' where you grow flowers for use in the house: narcissi; tulips; alstromeria; small-headed dahlias; irises.
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Mary Berry, the queen of baking recounts her life, albeit with the help of an author who pieces the narrative together. On our screens she is as wholesome as a load of granary bread and it seems that Mary Berry has lived an equally healthy life.
Although she came from an eminent family it is clear from her story that she has worked very hard to get where she is today. Brave decisions to move away from home to embark on her career, taking up every opportunity to gain experience whether through pai
Mary Berry, the queen of baking recounts her life, albeit with the help of an author who pieces the narrative together. On our screens she is as wholesome as a load of granary bread and it seems that Mary Berry has lived an equally healthy life.
Although she came from an eminent family it is clear from her story that she has worked very hard to get where she is today. Brave decisions to move away from home to embark on her career, taking up every opportunity to gain experience whether through paid work, volunteering and setting up her own Aga demonstrations – not to mention all of the books she has written over the years. Her story is told gently with humorous anecdotes, social commentary and is tinged with sadness when she discusses the death of her son and the impact it had on her and her family.
These memoirs may perhaps be a bit saccharine for some as there is nothing scandalous and Mary is eternally positive. However I thoroughly enjoyed reading about her experiences and am keen to have a go at some of the recipes that conclude each chapter.
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I have always thought that Mary Berry seems like a lovely lady and reading this book has confirmed that first impression. Mary is a warm, amusing raconteur but I hadn't realised the family sadness she has experienced and I greatly admire the stoical 'get on with it' attitude that has helped her to get through something that I can't imagine coping with. Brave, modest, sometimes strict but caring too, I shall enjoy watching her TV appearances all the more now.
I do watch the Bake off occasionally but would not say I'm an absolute fan. But I loved this book. It was like listening to Mary speaking to you and explaining how she became so well known. A kind woman who was driven by her own determination to bring good tasty food to the nation which is easy to prepare.
I enjoyed this as it went along because it details the interesting things around Mary's life and the things that happened to her. As it progressed towards the end, though, it seemed to lose direction a bit - or moreover, that it seems to be holding off one topic to keep readers going: The Great British Bake Off. I got the impression that most people would be reading because of the Bake Off and subsequent love for Mary instead of the other way around, which meant that it kind of dropped out a bit
I enjoyed this as it went along because it details the interesting things around Mary's life and the things that happened to her. As it progressed towards the end, though, it seemed to lose direction a bit - or moreover, that it seems to be holding off one topic to keep readers going: The Great British Bake Off. I got the impression that most people would be reading because of the Bake Off and subsequent love for Mary instead of the other way around, which meant that it kind of dropped out a bit towards the end; though it was not exactly uninteresting.
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A nice and interesting read. Not a literary masterpiece but enjoyable from start to finish. Mary confirms to me what a nice person she really is. Her reactions to the loss of her son was very moving and quite inspirational.
What a lovely read, you can almost hear Mary's voice when you read the book. And what an interesting life to read about... I found myself grinning a lot, but it's not all sunshine and roses.
I really enjoyed this autobiography of Mary Berry. What an incredible genuine and authentic lady, who is so appreciative of life. We could all learn a thing or two out of her book!
A very readable book, which I read on holiday in a few days. It provides an interesting insight into Mary Berry's life and how she has got where she is today.
I found this book really inspirational, when we were first told to read this book I thought Mary berry because I knew she had an interesting life and I love baking but this book really shows what a wonderful woman she is!
I really enjoyed this book, very inspiring.
She has had a very interesting life, good to read about it.
I also have the Hamlyn All Colour Colour Cook Book!
I always like watching Mary Berry on TV & knowing more about how she has got where she is now makes for an interesting read. This book was read in two days.
Loved this book, as it allowed me to 'get to know' Mary Berry so much better! An easy yet interesting read and I loved the recipes dotted throughout. I am now motivated all the more to bake at home!
This is a good account of an interesting life that shows the versatility of this blithe spirit. Her determination helps her succeed when others might have thought her to not have a hope. With some good and bad fortune thrown into her life story what shines through is that she is a matriarch to be admired for her positivity and adaptability as well as the culinary ability she has nurtured and maintained. All in all it is a pleasure to have opportunity to get to know this cheery lady a little bett
This is a good account of an interesting life that shows the versatility of this blithe spirit. Her determination helps her succeed when others might have thought her to not have a hope. With some good and bad fortune thrown into her life story what shines through is that she is a matriarch to be admired for her positivity and adaptability as well as the culinary ability she has nurtured and maintained. All in all it is a pleasure to have opportunity to get to know this cheery lady a little better.
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Sarah Robinson
Wow, what an inspiration she is! A wonderful hostess with a zest for life still and a pivotal figure for her family.
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Jan 23, 2015 12:53PM