Boy George, the lead singer of the Grammy Award-winning band Culture CLub, was one of the 1980s' biggest pop icons. This tell-all autobiography reveals the whole truth of his life, from the height of Boy George mania to the waning of Culture Club's fame, his failed relationship with drummer Jon Moss, his desperate battle against heroin addiction, and his return with the hi
Boy George, the lead singer of the Grammy Award-winning band Culture CLub, was one of the 1980s' biggest pop icons. This tell-all autobiography reveals the whole truth of his life, from the height of Boy George mania to the waning of Culture Club's fame, his failed relationship with drummer Jon Moss, his desperate battle against heroin addiction, and his return with the hit single "The Crying Game". 24-page photo insert.
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Paperback
Published
October 1st 1996
by HarperCollins Publishers
(first published January 1st 1995)
While never a fan of Culture Club I always found Boy George an intriguing character. He quite clearly doesn't give a damn what anyone thinks of him and the amount of self-dirt dished is staggering. George O'Dowd was clearly never going to be an 'ordinary' man and that's what makes his story such a fascinating read. This reader was left feeling deep admiration for George's candidness in relating events that really do not put him in a good light. I would imagine anyone who ever read this book is l
While never a fan of Culture Club I always found Boy George an intriguing character. He quite clearly doesn't give a damn what anyone thinks of him and the amount of self-dirt dished is staggering. George O'Dowd was clearly never going to be an 'ordinary' man and that's what makes his story such a fascinating read. This reader was left feeling deep admiration for George's candidness in relating events that really do not put him in a good light. I would imagine anyone who ever read this book is left with the same question on their mind when closing it for the final time - what were the bits he left out, and why?
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I just spent a week with Boy George - I could not put it down. I was one of those fat preteens that he writes about not wanting to be a role model for. I did not realize how young he was when I looked up to him. I thought his message of "everyone can be whatever they want to be" was so original and life changing. Turns out he was self loathing and in pain for years. A very candid book with great pictures. He had several near misses with death and all the sordid details are included. I even looke
I just spent a week with Boy George - I could not put it down. I was one of those fat preteens that he writes about not wanting to be a role model for. I did not realize how young he was when I looked up to him. I thought his message of "everyone can be whatever they want to be" was so original and life changing. Turns out he was self loathing and in pain for years. A very candid book with great pictures. He had several near misses with death and all the sordid details are included. I even looked up some videos on YouTube because I wanted to see if I could tell how whacked out on drugs he was after reading about the making of $500,000 epic three minute videos. I couldn't tell - you fooled us all, George. Good for you. Namaste.
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Boy George's life is interesting from start to current and his biting wit shines throughout. He takes cracks at celebrities and is honest about his struggles with drug addiction, while never being preachy. FUN!
This was a highly entertaining autobiography.
Even if you aren't a fan of Boy George I would recommend it.
It starts from his childhood until after his downfall with drugs.
Much like a Vh1 Behind the music but, alot more detailed.
Boy George is very funny. Even when he is talking about his addiction he made
light of it. He seems like a very creative and fun individual.
If you are looking for a good Autobiography, I would check this one out.
FINALLY done with this--felt like it took forever to slog through. I was never a big Culture Club fan but I think Boy George is interesting. TAKE IT LIKE A MAN was dense as hell--just too much info--so that reading it sometimes felt like work. BUT it did have some good stuff--I really liked the epilogue and the descriptions of India and the other places he traveled--the occasional dish on celebrities was fun too. Basically, George had a lot of life experience to document and the book has a lot o
FINALLY done with this--felt like it took forever to slog through. I was never a big Culture Club fan but I think Boy George is interesting. TAKE IT LIKE A MAN was dense as hell--just too much info--so that reading it sometimes felt like work. BUT it did have some good stuff--I really liked the epilogue and the descriptions of India and the other places he traveled--the occasional dish on celebrities was fun too. Basically, George had a lot of life experience to document and the book has a lot of detail. I feel like there was way too much description of makeup and clothing but that might be exactly what another reader was looking for. Perhaps the book is most guilty of being too comprehensive, but I came out of it having even more respect for its author, so I'd call it a success.
Boy George changed my young life. Just seeing that face and dress like none I had seen before, I was charmed. This books explains it all. Still love George. Love this last bit of the epilogue too:
"I've been in damaged relationships for as long as I can remember. I hang in, hoping something will give, always blaming my partners for being cold and selfish. Now I realize like attracts like. Recently I came across a box of Jon's letters (Yes, she keeps everything) and I was enlightened to some of my
Boy George changed my young life. Just seeing that face and dress like none I had seen before, I was charmed. This books explains it all. Still love George. Love this last bit of the epilogue too:
"I've been in damaged relationships for as long as I can remember. I hang in, hoping something will give, always blaming my partners for being cold and selfish. Now I realize like attracts like. Recently I came across a box of Jon's letters (Yes, she keeps everything) and I was enlightened to some of my own demons. I know now that you can't take out of a relationship what you don't put in, and you always meet the partner that suits your needs. So don't complain, bitch, get the Windolene out and clean that mirror." :-)
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From the title to the cover to the content, this book intrigues. As an author I can appreciate the power of a good cover and the hook of a clever title. As a reader, I can sympathize with the heart-wrenching struggle that led to the writing of this book. From the first page to the last I was engaged in a journey that seemed sure to lead to inevitable destruction. But instead of self-annihilation, George’s journey led to the rebirth of a troubled spirit. The narrative is raw and compelling. The s
From the title to the cover to the content, this book intrigues. As an author I can appreciate the power of a good cover and the hook of a clever title. As a reader, I can sympathize with the heart-wrenching struggle that led to the writing of this book. From the first page to the last I was engaged in a journey that seemed sure to lead to inevitable destruction. But instead of self-annihilation, George’s journey led to the rebirth of a troubled spirit. The narrative is raw and compelling. The story a familiar one of an individual who feels different from his friends and family but finds the courage to become unique.
At times I got lost in the endless string of names and people that came in and out of George’s life. It was amazing how one name flowed into a different one from one paragraph to another and yet I was able to keep on reading. More so, I wanted to keep reading to see where this journey would end. The endless names were only an external indicator of the confusion and inconsistency in George’s life, of the constant search for love and friendship, for acceptance—even if he had to buy it. People came and went. Friends changed loyalties. Lovers were inconsistent. And through it all, George remained on the edge of himself, still an outsider, forbidden by fame to be honest about who he really was. From the drama to the drugs, his was a life out of control.
The fun part of reading this book was that I could read it side by side with You Tube and the Internet to visualize what I was reading. The narrative was vivid and painted a colorful canvas, but to be able to search the internet and see a video of the Top of the Pops performance of “Do You Really Want to Hurt Me” while watching drummer Jon Moss beat out the rhythm to a song written about him was intriguing. To see George stoned was horrifying, to see him happy gratifying. His story became real both through his words and his videos. And unlike in some of the interviews, where he was not being honest, in this book Boy George did finally “take it like a man.” In many unflattering passages, he assumed responsibility for his arrogance, his self-centeredness, and his outsized ego. I could feel the pain of his shame, the sting of media cruelty, the blows to his self-esteem when the press called him Junkie George or a fat cow, relentlessly focusing on his weight losses and gains in a way that would have made a weaker man (or woman) fold under the pressure.
His struggles were extreme, but painfully real. I admire George for having the courage to live his life on his terms. But more importantly, I admire the strength he found to fight his demons and struggle his way back to a better place. TAKE IT LIKE A MAN is a fascinating story about an outsider gone mainstream and then his journey back home to the unique individual he was meant to be.
Seriously, get an editor!
I am just amazed that someone did not tell Boy George that not every single minute, every single emotion, every single thought, every single bodily function needs to be in this book.
Honestly, I wanted to like this book. I enjoyed his music and I wanted to know more about his life. I was wrong!
i know this is supposed to be GOOD reads, not horrible reads, but for the sake of my friends i must warn you: this book really sucks. and this is how. apparently boy george hates people who talk shit- despises them, really. then he proceeds to shit-talk everyone he's ever met.
This book is enlightening. I had no idea all the turmoil of drug addicts. I love Boy George and can't believe he fell into this terrible abyss of life. It was interesting to read about his life and all the trials. I feel awful that he chose this, but I'm glad he's still around to tell of the horrors of a drug life. I hope others will read this and steer clear of them. We all think fame is so great, and that people are so creative on drugs, but the opposite is true.
The book itself, at times, was
This book is enlightening. I had no idea all the turmoil of drug addicts. I love Boy George and can't believe he fell into this terrible abyss of life. It was interesting to read about his life and all the trials. I feel awful that he chose this, but I'm glad he's still around to tell of the horrors of a drug life. I hope others will read this and steer clear of them. We all think fame is so great, and that people are so creative on drugs, but the opposite is true.
The book itself, at times, was a little discombobulated and I had trouble keeping everyone straight and the time frame at which everything was taking place. It would have been nice to have a "Who's Who" in the front of the book.
Overall, an enjoyable read. One I would highly recommend.
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Ohyeah, I loved it. I'm pathetic. I adore Boy George - I think he's a great talent and it's a damn shame that it's all gone up his nose. It kills me that he's now off to prison. An incredible waste. I'd recommend this for fans only...
I'm a fan of Boy George, but I admit I opened this book with low hopes. I thought it would be entertaining at best, but didn't expect it to be so well written or so full of insight into the London scene of 1980s.
I read this book when it first came out and was inspired to read it again now that Culture Club is back together. I was a HUGE fan when I was 13 and thought I knew everything about Boy George. This book opened my eyes to what was really going on. I'm not sure I'd recommend it to everyone, but if you're hardcore Culture Club fan, it's a must-read. George's relationship with drummer Jon Moss was what held the band together and it's what holds this book together, too. I could not get enough of it.
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I read this book when it first came out and was inspired to read it again now that Culture Club is back together. I was a HUGE fan when I was 13 and thought I knew everything about Boy George. This book opened my eyes to what was really going on. I'm not sure I'd recommend it to everyone, but if you're hardcore Culture Club fan, it's a must-read. George's relationship with drummer Jon Moss was what held the band together and it's what holds this book together, too. I could not get enough of it.
My biggest complaint is that there were a lot of people in George's life and as a reader it's hard to keep them all straight (so to speak). Perhaps more editing was needed.
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I love Boy George; people always ask me why and sometimes I can't give them an answer. I decided to read this book so that I could maybe put together a response that made sense. The first chunk of this book is good and interesting, with George's childhood home life, teenage runaway troubles, and everything leading up to the formation and success of Culture Club. The second half was harder to read and slower, despite it being about his failures involving the band and drugs. Now, I can say that I
I love Boy George; people always ask me why and sometimes I can't give them an answer. I decided to read this book so that I could maybe put together a response that made sense. The first chunk of this book is good and interesting, with George's childhood home life, teenage runaway troubles, and everything leading up to the formation and success of Culture Club. The second half was harder to read and slower, despite it being about his failures involving the band and drugs. Now, I can say that I love George for his beauty, his wit, his attitude, his daring choices, his honesty, and everything that he has gone through and come out stronger for. This book covers things that the media never did, such as the extent of his abusive relationship with Jon Moss, the way he dealt with fans versus how he really felt about them, and the struggles of the band Culture Club that seem to fall on all his shoulders. Sometimes, it got confusing when George would introduce people he knew, talk about them for a few paragraphs, and either never mention them again or bring them back hundreds of pages later. This book definitely isn't for anyone who doesn't already love the 80s and the Boy, but I did enjoy reading it for the most part.
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Hace relativamente poco tiempo que supe de la existencia de esta autobiografía de Boy George y fue, casualmente, leyendo su otro libro, "Straight".
Desde mi preadolescencia, Boy George ha sido uno de mis músicos favoritos, no sólo porque muchas de sus canciones son realmente buenas, sino porque su personalidad siempre llamó mi atención. Sus atuendos "extraños" (a los ojos de una niña de 12 años) y su lengua de víbora siempre me resultaron divertidos. Con los años, aunque mis gustos musicales sig
Hace relativamente poco tiempo que supe de la existencia de esta autobiografía de Boy George y fue, casualmente, leyendo su otro libro, "Straight".
Desde mi preadolescencia, Boy George ha sido uno de mis músicos favoritos, no sólo porque muchas de sus canciones son realmente buenas, sino porque su personalidad siempre llamó mi atención. Sus atuendos "extraños" (a los ojos de una niña de 12 años) y su lengua de víbora siempre me resultaron divertidos. Con los años, aunque mis gustos musicales siguieron otros caminos, Boy George ha seguido siendo uno de esos pocos personajes de los que siempre quiero saber en qué andan.
Conseguir el libro no fue nada fácil dado que este libro no tiene ediciones al español y que no han sido muchas las ediciones posteriores a la que salió en 1997. Lo busqué en Amazon y, para mi sorpresa, su precio siempre era alto. Este año, casi por casualidad, volví a topar con él en Amazon y lo conseguí seminuevo, por un precio irrisible.
Apenas pude esperar a sacarlo del sobre para comenzar a leerlo. Incluso dejé de lado los otros dos libros que estaba leyendo en ese momento para dedicarme sólo a éste. Y no me he sentido decepcionada...
Debo confesar que esperaba un libro lleno de chismes, casi, casi como lo es "Straight", pero en lugar de eso, me encontré leyendo una historia ambientada en una Londres de fines de los años '70 y principios de los '80, y de cómo la escena glam persistía a pesar del aumento del punk y de otros géneros menores. No es menos interesante la transformación del mismo Boy George, quien desde niño supo que era homosexual, pero que seguía los patrones de todo adolescente de su edad e intentaba salir con chicas. El momento más interesante es cuando deja la casa de sus padres para vivir en "Squats", compartiendolos varias veces con más de dos personas. Su transformación de punk a drag queen también tiene lo suyo y no es posible dejarla de lado.
Como fan de Culture Club, poder ver el interior del grupo, desde su momento de formación, pasando por el romance de George y Jon (que muchos de sus fans dábamos por sentado), hasta llegar al momento de la caída fue emotivo, interesante y fuerte.
Por momentos, el libro se hace un poco denso para quienes no saben lo que es la vida de un adicto a las drogas y, tal vez, ésa fue la parte que me aburrió. Pero de todos modos, la lectura sigue siendo interesante.
Los últimos capítulos están dedicados a la recuperación y a un viaje a la India.
Creo sinceramente que el libro es entretenido, fácil de leer y que, en su mayor parte, no decae el interés por saber qué va a pasar a continuación. Sin embargo, sólo se lo recomiendo a quienes sean fans de Boy George.
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Another man who somehow managed to make it out of the 1980's alive. Reading his account of his heroin addiction and how he watched close friends die of it(including one in his own home), you wonder how he made it out alive. Yet he did, and thankfully we are able to read all about it. Reading about his tempestuous relationship with his father and trying to come to terms with his sexuality in the late 70's only to be catapulted into overnight success with Culture Club, he is refreshingly, sometime
Another man who somehow managed to make it out of the 1980's alive. Reading his account of his heroin addiction and how he watched close friends die of it(including one in his own home), you wonder how he made it out alive. Yet he did, and thankfully we are able to read all about it. Reading about his tempestuous relationship with his father and trying to come to terms with his sexuality in the late 70's only to be catapulted into overnight success with Culture Club, he is refreshingly, sometimes brutally honest about his life and what has become of it, due to his fame and addiction. A funny, and heartwarming story of guts, glory, and George
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I started to read this book almost two months ago, I've finished about two thirds of it so far and I feel like I just can't go on...yet. The break's taken about a month now.
My suggestion: the co-author should have edited way heavily.
Compared to Marc Almond's Tainted Life this book just isn't so well written and is repetitive sometimes. It's not a bad book by any means and sometimes it is a very exciting and entertaining read - all it needs is a good editor because I really felt wasted after read
I started to read this book almost two months ago, I've finished about two thirds of it so far and I feel like I just can't go on...yet. The break's taken about a month now.
My suggestion: the co-author should have edited way heavily.
Compared to Marc Almond's Tainted Life this book just isn't so well written and is repetitive sometimes. It's not a bad book by any means and sometimes it is a very exciting and entertaining read - all it needs is a good editor because I really felt wasted after reading about one third in the book.
Maybe one day I'll have the strenght to finish it... :)
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I picked this up because it piqued my interest and I brought it home to look at the fabulous pictures of Boy George. I ended up reading the whole thing, even though I do not really like memoirs or autobiographies, because Boy George is so cynical, harsh, witty, and interesting. While he does complain about all the shit talkers and then proceed to talk huge heaps of shit, it is comical and I am apt to side with him more than Brooke Shields. The writing is unrelenting and not for the prudes among
I picked this up because it piqued my interest and I brought it home to look at the fabulous pictures of Boy George. I ended up reading the whole thing, even though I do not really like memoirs or autobiographies, because Boy George is so cynical, harsh, witty, and interesting. While he does complain about all the shit talkers and then proceed to talk huge heaps of shit, it is comical and I am apt to side with him more than Brooke Shields. The writing is unrelenting and not for the prudes among us, and it is also a bit of trashy fun.
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This is a great piece of freak history! The beginning of Mr. O'Dowd's memoir filled in the blanks in my mind regarding "The New Romantics" and that subcultural era in general. Boy lays out his path from poofter lad to Bolan and Bowie obsessive to punk rocker to club goer and 'drag addict'. The portrait he makes of working class England and it's subcultures in context - with it's Teddy Boys, squats, reggae and Vivienne Westwood shop, makes this a worthy read just by itself.
I read this when it first came out (!).
George was one of my heroes when I was a teenager, he represents, as Quentin Crisp had before him, us freakier queers.
It's a great book and you can hear his inimitable voice throughout.
I once saw him in Leicester Square around the time of 'Taboo' being on and longed to go and say how much I loved him and his music...but I was too shy.
20 years on I'm delighted to report George is still with us and still out there.
I was a child of the 80's, and Boy George was my idol in my youth. He opened my eyes to the many ways folks can be themselves, and he proved that you can create your own world to live in.
I sympathized with his life, and the adversity he went through to be himself. It's sometimes sad when people go down the road of excess, but the good comes when they survive and (hopefully)become a better person because of their experiences.