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Fathers and Sons: The Autobiography of a Family

3.93 of 5 stars 3.93 · rating details · 180 ratings · 44 reviews

If there is a literary gene, then the Waugh family most certainly has it—and it clearly seems to be passed down from father to son. The first of the literary Waughs was Arthur, who, when he won the Newdigate Prize for poetry at Oxford in 1888, broke with the family tradition of medicine. He went on to become a distinguished publisher and an immensely influential book colum

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Hardcover , 480 pages
Published May 29th 2007 by Nan A. Talese (first published 2004)
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Chuck
Okay, this book just rocks.

It's different from what you'd think. It's funny--really funny--rather than the ponderous 'my family has been important for generations' tome it could have been. Two examples will illustrate how quirky--in the best possible sense--the book was.

First, according to the author, one of the family's most proud accomplishments was that an ancestor 'cured Queen Victoria's wind'--Waughs cured the queen's farts! A letter from one of the Queen's staff to the Waugh ancestor conf
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Sarah Beth
Even if you're not familiar with the many literary Waughs, most of us at least recognize Evelyn Waugh, of Brideshead Revisited fame. In this autobiography, Alexander Waugh, grandson of Evelyn Waugh, describes the legacy and complicated father and son relationships that litter his family tree. Beginning with The Brute (his great-great grandfather) down through his own son Auberon, Alexander Waugh details his family tree, including the many writers in the family. In this work, he ruminates on his ...more
Christopher Roth
For fans of any of the Waughs, this is a must-read. Compared to the two Evelyn Waugh biographies I've read (Stannard and Sykes), there is a lot more detail here about Evelyn's relationship with his father Arthur, and in particular it brings out the horrific favoritism that Arthur Waugh bestowed on his son Alec at Evelyn's expense. This is sort of the key to the whole conundrum of the Waugh men and their different--and differently pathological--personalities and, of course, their writing. In part ...more
Carrie
I am so glad that I enjoyed this book - I was starting to feel that I was too cranky to ever enjoy non-fiction again. But this is a great book - one of the best I’ve read this year. Anyway, this book is biography/memoir of a literary family - Alexander Waugh writes the story of his famous literary family. He is a music/science writer, his father, Auberon Waugh was a famous cantankerous columnist in England, his grandfather, of course the famous novelist Evelyn Waugh. Plus, his great uncle was a ...more
John
I suppose, when I think of it, that all of us Waughs only became writers to impress our fathers.
-- from "Fathers and Sons"

Alexander Waugh's "Fathers and Sons" covers five generations of fathers and sons in the literary Waugh family. The direct line starts with Alexander Waugh, nicknamed "The Brute"; continues to Arthur, then to Evelyn, then to Auberon and finally to the author.
Various other male and female Waughs are encountered along the way.
All of the men, with the possible exception of the au
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Tanja
Sep 16, 2007 Tanja rated it 4 of 5 stars
Recommends it for: those wondering about the eccentricity of their own family
Shelves: biography
I absolutely adore this book.
It is well written, with great wit and with so much warmth. Alexander Waugh is clearly not blind to the faults of his forbearers, and some of their actions are horrid and despicable, but he does not shy away from them, does not cover up, tries to hide or to excuse. And yet, the entire book reads as a love letter to a family that has crafted a succession of great writers. Several times I found myself laughing out loud, or simply smiling happily.
I loved reading about t
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Jessica
I finally finished this book, that took a while for me to get into, but then I could hardly put the second half down. Probably because the second half dealt mainly with adult Evelyn Waugh and his son, and let's face it - Evelyn was the most interesting Waugh. It's astonishing how literary this family was and even more astonishing how horrible at parenting there were! But they did lead interesting lives and Evelyn's letters were just as witty as his books, which make this is an entertaining read. ...more
Noah
Jan 14, 2008 Noah rated it 3 of 5 stars
Recommends it for: fathers ... sons ... writers ... not girls
i can't believe i finally finished this mother...
the autobiography of a family (spread out over several generations) of semi-successful writers over the last century-plus in England. It's an interesting look at the relationship between fathers and their sons but these fathers are actually pretty poor parents and they do a great job at passing their inflated egos, classist views, and clever and witty writing down to the next generation. much of the stories surrounding their lives are told in the
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Ineke Kluft
This was such a good read, I can not help but give it the full 5 stars. It is well written, very funny and witty, not being Britisch (Dutch) I kept thinking how very British this family is. In fact it is not funny that a father (Evelyn) doen't like his children but I had to laugh about it. And the mother liked her cows better than her children....
I enjoyed it very much.
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Chuck Lowry
Since Brideshead Revisited is one of my favorite novels, and since I like the other work of Evelyn Waugh as well, I thought I would pick up this "family autobiography" by Evelyn Waugh's grandson. It covers five generations in some detail, two before Evelyn and two after, and it is quite interesting. Among the things I like is the author's willingness to use his family knowledge to make intelligent speculation, but to let you know when he is doing that, e.g., "I strongly suspect that The Brute fo ...more
Scuzzymonster
This book was not so much boring as obnoxious. It claims to be an analysis of the father-son dynamic, but is really just a self indulgent piece of ancestor worship on the part of Alexander Waugh. Not that he tries to claim that his family were flawless, in fact he seems to relish describing the many unpleasant aspects of his male relatives' characters, but he gives the impression that all these sins should be forgiven because of their literary genius. Some parts are genuinely interesting, especi ...more
The American Conservative
'Four generations of Waugh boys—from Evelyn’s father Arthur, born 1866, to Alexander, born 1963—have grown up to be writers. Between them, Arthur’s descendents—daughters, too—have produced 180 books of all kinds: biographies, novels, journalism, poetry, even treatises entitled Time and God. The last two are among Alexander’s previous works: warm-ups for tackling the Waughs, one might say.'

Read the full review, "The Waugh at Home," on our website:
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Lisa
I first fell for Alexander Waugh's 'God'. His book 'Time' was very good as well. Some authors, I find, get better with every book, while others lose interest and live on their laurels. Others maintain the status quo. With 'Fathers and sons', Alexander Waugh definitely falls into the first category. If not for this book, I would have never looked into his father's works or his grandfather's works. That says something about Alex Waugh's awesomeness.
Definitely a book to return to again and again.
Maya
Truly excellent: it's hard to imagine how the literary gene can be so consistently passed down in this manner, but it obviously has been. Despite Brideshead Revisited being a cherished favorite of mine, I'd never read any Waugh biography before this. Alexander Waugh writes with a breezy humor that shows his relationship to his father and grandfather, yet has a sense of objectivity that allows the book to be something more than a navel-gazing exercise about growing up in a famous family.
Lisa
I'm a huge fan of Evelyn Waugh, and of memoirs, so I really enjoyed this. Alexander Waugh (Evelyn's grandson) writes about the dysfunctional relationships between his family's fathers and sons, beginning with his great grandfather, who was nicknamed "The Brute." Waugh (Alexander) sneaks in a snarky comment when the book starts getting too serious or depressing. Most of these are very funny, and worthy of his grandfather. Sometimes, though, they're more smarmy than snarky. Smarky.
Mauberley
This is a fine memoir, neither self-serving nor an attampt to keep the family skeletons hidden. For me, the most remarkable section was that which dealt with the author's great-grandfather (Arthur) and his grandfather (Evelyn) and grand-uncle (Alec). All lived strange lives that were not always happy. Forever grateful for learning the correct pronunciation of the name of the author's father (Auberon), one of my favourite journalists from the last century.
Sara
A frequently amusing, sometimes sad and horrifying but always clear-eyed look at the dynamics of a line of authors that it would be easy to write off as a bunch of upper-class twits, written by the grandson of Evelyn Waugh. Author Alexander Waugh seems to have inherited many of the libertarian/conservative tendencies of his father, Auberon Waugh, and the book is full of little asides that would likely appeal to those of similar political persuasion.
Dee
This reads to me like a giant apologia for the horrors that were the Waughs, especially Evelyn, and consequently has a kind of star-fuck aura, even if it is granpa who is the star. Lots of excuse making here, and what a wacked out family. It sent me back to Brideshead, which I am enjoying much more than this book. TMI on this one.
Katie
I probably would have enjoyed this more if I'd ever read anything by Evelyn Waugh, but as it was, I still found it an amusing look at father and son relations. The Waughs are all eccentric men and all in their own particular ways, so that made this interesting to read. They're all very British with very dry senses of humor.
Karl
So, of course (I might almost say) I read this because I like so many of the Evelyn Waugh titles I've read over the years. The whole book is a marvelous story, very engagingly written. Makes me want to read Alexander Waugh's other books. And (of course) makes me want to re-read all of Evelyn Waugh.
Melody
I tried, but I confess to being so put off early in the book that I didn't try very hard. I've never read anything by any of the Waughs, so that no doubt contributed to my lack of interest in their history. I picked this up on the strength of the cover, which is always risky.
Erica
News flash: the Waugh family was disfunctional. I enjoyed reading about one of my favorite authors of all time (Evelyn, that is - sorry to the rest of the family). But this family history was not nearly as engaging as a good, bitter novel.
Adam DeVille, Ph.D.
A must-read for all Waugh aficionados. It is funny and revealing, and was the jumping off for a charming BBC documentary the author did some time ago, parts of which you can profitably watch on Youtube.
Carolyn
A very interesting biography of a famous writing family by a modern descendant. I really liked it because I do so admire Brideshead Revisited and find Walugh's personal story strange and intriguing.
Sarah
This is good fun, with amusing stories about the brainy, eccentric and so-very-British family that's produced several famous writers--but it still seemed a little over-praised to me.
Allison
Stories about the relationships between fathers and sons are more entertaining and funny than stories about mothers and daughters. Those ones are so sappy and melodramatic.

Simon
Very, very funny. And sad. And astringent. And . . . well, you get the idea. And how the hell do you get the gene that allows one family to have been this damned talented?
Donna Jo Atwood
It took me a while to figure out who was who in this family, even with the chart. It's a wonder any of these men turned out able to think, let alone write for a living.
Nde3045
I've been on an Evelyn Waugh binge; this biography/autobiography was excellent -- witty, fascinating -- true to the great family tradition of brilliant writing.
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