"From life as a poor unwed mother in London to becoming one of England's bestselling authors and most popular exports, Fay Weldon has crammed more than most into her years. Wife, lover, playwright, novelist, feminist, antifeminist, winer and diner - Fay leads us through her peripatetic life with barely a role she can't illuminate." "Born Franklin Birkinshaw in 1931, Fay sp
"From life as a poor unwed mother in London to becoming one of England's bestselling authors and most popular exports, Fay Weldon has crammed more than most into her years. Wife, lover, playwright, novelist, feminist, antifeminist, winer and diner - Fay leads us through her peripatetic life with barely a role she can't illuminate." "Born Franklin Birkinshaw in 1931, Fay spent most of her youth in New Zealand. With her glamorous father, a philandering doctor, generally absent, Fay's intrepid mother and bohemian grandmother raised her along with her sister, Jane. Brought up among women, Fay found men a mystery until the swinging sixties in London where she gradually became a central figure among the writers, artists, and thinkers. She has maintained this unique position through four turbulent decades. At first, she managed to scrape along, penning winning advertising slogans, before she began to write fiction. As this memoir comes to a close, we witness the stirring of her first novel." Riddled with Weldon's customarily fierce opinions, this frank and absorbing memoir is vintage Fay. An icon to many, a thorn in the flesh to others, she has never failed to excite, madden, or interest. With this engaging autobiography, she has finally decided to turn her authorial wit and keen eye on...herself.
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Hardcover
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366 pages
Published
August 2nd 2002
by Key Porter Books
(first published 2001)
Things get quite rough for Fay Weldon, and her mother, her sister, her grandmother, her aunty, and their children in this book, but they battle on. Trying to solve the puzzle of men, at the source of all the trouble, Weldon makes a couple of bad calls early on, and lives to fight another day, to the cheers of once were lost girls the world over.
What's clear is that before she became a writer Weldon stored up an immense stock of experience: New Zealand in the thirties and forties, post-war London
Things get quite rough for Fay Weldon, and her mother, her sister, her grandmother, her aunty, and their children in this book, but they battle on. Trying to solve the puzzle of men, at the source of all the trouble, Weldon makes a couple of bad calls early on, and lives to fight another day, to the cheers of once were lost girls the world over.
What's clear is that before she became a writer Weldon stored up an immense stock of experience: New Zealand in the thirties and forties, post-war London, economics and psychology at St Andrews, the Information Research Department of the Foreign Office and writing copy and producing some of the earliest television advertising, raising children as an unmarried mother, and caring for her desperately ill sister.
The same qualities that saw her safely through all this make this an entertaining read: she gets on with things, and when one persona reaches the limit of its usefulness, adopts another. It's all part of the journey.
Just so I don't forget, here's 'people skills' according to Weldon:
"Regard one enemy as too many, a thousand friends as not enough. Say something nice before you say something nasty. Always praise before you blame. Deliver the good news first, then the bad. If there's any blame floating around, take it, even though it's nothing to do with you: others will be grateful that you carry the burden. Realize that today's scapegoat is tomorrow's hero, and vice versa. People hear what they want and expect to hear, not what is said. Never defend yourself: agree with your critics, it takes the wind out of their sails." (p328).
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A wonderfully witty account of her eventful life. Particularly enjoyed her account of her eccentric family and the early bohemian set, with more than it's fair share of writers, ratbags and tragic muses. From her childhood in New Zealand in the 1940s and 50's, to her adult life in England. Written with honesty and bravery, her life is framed by a series of identities as she goes through untold transformations and challenges. Solo mother, divorcee, guardian to her nieces. Her working life is a ra
A wonderfully witty account of her eventful life. Particularly enjoyed her account of her eccentric family and the early bohemian set, with more than it's fair share of writers, ratbags and tragic muses. From her childhood in New Zealand in the 1940s and 50's, to her adult life in England. Written with honesty and bravery, her life is framed by a series of identities as she goes through untold transformations and challenges. Solo mother, divorcee, guardian to her nieces. Her working life is a random résumé - chambermaid, intelligence gatherer for the Foreign Office, advertising copywriter, then writer for the BBC ('Upstairs Downstairs', etc.) Take a peek into the dystopia of the early Bohemian Society, the Bloomsbury set, St Ives, the early days of British advertising and television and the many writers she worked amongst.
An interesting autobigoraphy of an interesting person's interesting life. It is wrtten with all the flair of (most) of her novels; just about all of which I have read since her career took off in the sevenites. That is caeer as anovelist. She already held a degree in economics before trying her hand at writting advertising copy (very successfully) before moving on to scriptwriting for drama (also a highly successful venture - think first series of "Upstairs-Downstairs")before her feminist views
An interesting autobigoraphy of an interesting person's interesting life. It is wrtten with all the flair of (most) of her novels; just about all of which I have read since her career took off in the sevenites. That is caeer as anovelist. She already held a degree in economics before trying her hand at writting advertising copy (very successfully) before moving on to scriptwriting for drama (also a highly successful venture - think first series of "Upstairs-Downstairs")before her feminist views causued her to fall out with the establishment. Jane Austen fans should read her (paper or novel?)"Letters to Alice..." in which she discusses the life and times with her Goth-cum-Punk niece, subtly making the point how lucky the girl is to live in modern times, by answering the girl's questions about the life and times of Jane.
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Weldon is a talented author, but I thought the ending of the book was a bit abrupt. When she marries Weldon I think she's saying that writing took over and her personal life was a minor player.
Simply stunning. Love Fay Weldon and can't believe I've left it so long to read her autobiography. She is wise and witty and I learned so much from this book.
Since this is a writer's autobiography, I had hoped to get some information about how one becomes a writer. What I found instead was a confessional of someone who should have been in a convent being fitted for a chastity belt. Lesson learned. If your daughter has no self-esteem and will do anything to fit in, keep her away from all men no matter what age or marital status. Not entertaining in the least.
Brilliantly written autobiography. What a life! Interesting to discover how her writing talent was honed in advertising and to learn that she was responsible for so many famous slogans of the sixties and seventies. I prefer her autobiographical writing to her novels.
Fay Weldon CBE is an English author, essayist and playwright, whose work has been associated with feminism. In her fiction, Weldon typically portrays contemporary women who find themselves trapped in oppressive situations caused by the patriarchal structure of British society.