Told in the first-person and accompanied by photographs from family archives, this autobiography follows Diki Tsering, a poor girl born in 1901, the Year of the Ox, to a peasant family, who eventually marries at age sixteen and gives birth to the future H.H. Dalai Lama. The story is told chronologically, giving readers a personal look at His Holiness as a small child. It t
Told in the first-person and accompanied by photographs from family archives, this autobiography follows Diki Tsering, a poor girl born in 1901, the Year of the Ox, to a peasant family, who eventually marries at age sixteen and gives birth to the future H.H. Dalai Lama. The story is told chronologically, giving readers a personal look at His Holiness as a small child. It tells of his personality and upbringing, and what it's like for a mother to watch her son become one of the most recognized faces in the world. Her story ends in 1959 with her chronicle of the Chinese invasion of Tibet and the family's escape and eventual exile.
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The Dalai Lama's mother's autobiography is a treasure. What an eye-opener about her life which was incredibly difficult because that's the way it was (is) for women in Tibet. She explained how she was treated, yet wasn't complaining. How fortunate for the world that her daughter started recording her mother's oral history which was finished by the Dalai Lama's nephew after his mother's unfortunate early death. If you admire the Dalai Lama you will enjoy this look into his heritage from his mothe
The Dalai Lama's mother's autobiography is a treasure. What an eye-opener about her life which was incredibly difficult because that's the way it was (is) for women in Tibet. She explained how she was treated, yet wasn't complaining. How fortunate for the world that her daughter started recording her mother's oral history which was finished by the Dalai Lama's nephew after his mother's unfortunate early death. If you admire the Dalai Lama you will enjoy this look into his heritage from his mother's recollections. If you think being the mother of the Dalai Lama was easy, think again. Intrigue, suspicious deaths, fear and strangeness were rampant. What a strong woman she was. She went from extremely hard-working peasant to becoming mother of the Dalai Lama and all of its queen-like trappings and restrictions. it took only a few months before she began longing for her old home and all of the work it entailed. Her life was never the same again. I will have to say that I gave up trying to keep track of the names. Also, a few parts of the book did jump around in time. I'm guessing that's how oral history is and we are fortunate to have this inside peek into a family of one of the world's greatest men. It IS his mother's story, not that of HHDL. Perhaps the book's title is a tad misleading. But it got me to reading her story so all is good. I particularly love how she shared her heart. "As soon as I saw the city of Lhasa from a distance, there was a lump in my throat. I had heard so much about this city and had so often dreamed of it, and I now saw my dreams coming true." I particularly love this memory because I'm so hoping I'll reach Lhasa before my last breath in this life.
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The memoirs of the ordinary Tibetan housewife who became the Dalai Lama's mom. Diki Tsering was illiterate, but her niece tape-recorded interviews with her before her death in 1980 and those interviews became this book. I most enjoyed the first half, where Tsering talks about her childhood and early adulthood in Tibet before the Chinese invasion. Life in that time and place was very simple and had a lot of beauty, but a lot of harshness too. Tsering writes about the bad treatment of women in Tib
The memoirs of the ordinary Tibetan housewife who became the Dalai Lama's mom. Diki Tsering was illiterate, but her niece tape-recorded interviews with her before her death in 1980 and those interviews became this book. I most enjoyed the first half, where Tsering talks about her childhood and early adulthood in Tibet before the Chinese invasion. Life in that time and place was very simple and had a lot of beauty, but a lot of harshness too. Tsering writes about the bad treatment of women in Tibetan society -- a daughter-in-law was basically a slave, and widows were compelled to remarry whether they wanted to or not -- and about how, of her sixteen children, nine of them did not live past infancy. Yet she clearly enjoyed her early life, surrounded by a loving family, and knowing very well her place in the world. Deprived as her existence was, she seems to have enjoyed a sense of security that the modern person's world lacks.
I thought the second half of the book, about the Dalai Lama's rise to power and the family's escape to India, was much weaker. I don't know much about the Dalai Lama's life or the situation in Tibet and I couldn't understand a lot of what was going on. I think if I knew more I would have liked this part better. For this reason I would recommend this as only a supplement to learning about Tibet and the Dalai Lama.
Can you imagine the bragging rights this woman must have had? Other people's sons get good grades in school or are star soccer players; her son was GOD.
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After seeing the Dalai Lama last May, I thought this would be a great book to read, to discover more about his life. And this book didn't disappoint. Told from the mother's point of view, and it was about her early life and struggles as a woman in Tibet. She was born around 1901--she didn't know exactly when, since the woman was not thought of highly. She was more like a servant, and she had an arranged marriage. The in-laws wanted her to be married to her son when she was only 14, because they
After seeing the Dalai Lama last May, I thought this would be a great book to read, to discover more about his life. And this book didn't disappoint. Told from the mother's point of view, and it was about her early life and struggles as a woman in Tibet. She was born around 1901--she didn't know exactly when, since the woman was not thought of highly. She was more like a servant, and she had an arranged marriage. The in-laws wanted her to be married to her son when she was only 14, because they needed someone to do all the chores. But her parents had them wait until she was 16. There was much superstition, and many dates, such as her wedding and any travel were determined by the astrologers. And there was no electricity, until she was in her late 20's. And she had to walk down to a well, 10 times a day for the water for the family, in addition to keeping the fire lit in the home. All that changed when her son was proclaimed the next Dalai Lama. Really an interesting read.
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I knew very little about Tibet (except, you know, the China thing) beyond what I've seen in a few nature documentaries where the emphasis was on animal and plant life, not the people, before reading this book. Somewhere I had got the idea that the Dalai Lama was from poor peasant stock, so was surprised to discover that his family were actually well-to-do landowners by Tibetan standards, with many well-connected relatives.
Diki Tsering tells her own story in her own words, and tells it well. Unf
I knew very little about Tibet (except, you know, the China thing) beyond what I've seen in a few nature documentaries where the emphasis was on animal and plant life, not the people, before reading this book. Somewhere I had got the idea that the Dalai Lama was from poor peasant stock, so was surprised to discover that his family were actually well-to-do landowners by Tibetan standards, with many well-connected relatives.
Diki Tsering tells her own story in her own words, and tells it well. Unfortunately the copy I borrowed was damaged, with a page or two missing at the end, where she tells of the family's flight to India. I smiled over the marriage customs--I know the go-between knew what to expect, but imagine being doused with cold water and then covered with oil and barley flour when you arrive at someone's house!
I've never been a fan of the current Dalai Lama, though I know people who swoon over his every pronouncement, but this book was interesting and informative. Very little information about the Dalai Lama as her son, but then given the system of removing a lama from his home in childhood and taking him to be educated by monks, that's hardly surprising. It made me remember the case of "little Osel", a boy here in Spain who was identified in 1986 as the "reincarnation" of a Lama. Strangely enough, 18 years later he decided he didn't want to be, and returned to Ibiza, where he is now a drummer in a rock band and apparently no longer a Buddhist. Can you do that? (In my world, yes.) Of course, Osel's family were European Buddhists--I doubt a "reincarnation" would surface among, say, Catholics or Baptists. Apparently there were no fewer than
three
high-level "reincarnations" among the author's children. One wonders if that would have been so if the family had been of the bonded-labourer class.
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A niece of the Dalai Lama asked her grandmother to tell the story of her life and tape-recorded it; it was transcribed and translated from Tibetan, and the result is this autobiography of the Dalai Lama's mother. The style is simple, direct, and unadorned, as one might expect of a woman raised in a peasant family - many times this is effective, but sometimes I wished for more, as in the recounting of the years leading up to his exile, with the political intrigue and Communist infiltration of Tib
A niece of the Dalai Lama asked her grandmother to tell the story of her life and tape-recorded it; it was transcribed and translated from Tibetan, and the result is this autobiography of the Dalai Lama's mother. The style is simple, direct, and unadorned, as one might expect of a woman raised in a peasant family - many times this is effective, but sometimes I wished for more, as in the recounting of the years leading up to his exile, with the political intrigue and Communist infiltration of Tibet. The book begins with her memories of growing up in Tibet - the customs, the food, the dress, the festivals, etc. - and then moves on to her marriage and parenthood. She gave birth to 16 children, only 7 of whom survived past toddlerhood. I particularly enjoyed reading about the time leading up to the Dalai Lama's birth and the 4 years thereafter, as his mother sensed that he was someone special and then as strangers from another land came to their home and recognized him as the 14th Dalai Lama, with wisdom and knowledge beyond his years and experience. The parallels with Mary and Jesus in this way were thought-provoking, as we don't hear much about Mary's perspective on her son; I thought perhaps their reactions might have been similar. I have also heard stories of Joan of Arc that seemed reminiscent of this theme, of one chosen for a divine purpose who knows and understands far more than one of that youth and inexperience would be expected to. I wished for more about the interaction between mother and son once he became "His Holiness"; perhaps she was protecting his privacy? Perhaps she was staying with her own perspective on the theory that his words and deeds would be recounted by others? All in all, I enjoyed this book, and it left me much to think about.
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Such a fantastic insight to Tibetan Culture, history and the personal life of the Dalai Lama's mother. After reading it, I almost feel like I've been to Tibet. It's written in such a candid and telling light, like a grandmother reminiscing old stories.
The Dalai Lama's nephew continues the work of his sister in writing about their grandmother. Their grandmother provided the strength of their family. This book, gleaned from notes taken by her grandchildren, cover her life from peasant origins in Tibet to the escape and exile to India after the Chinese Communist takeover in 1959. The Dalai Lama does not take center stage in this book, thus leading me to think that the title of this book is all wrong. The subtitle A Mother's Autobiogaphy should h
The Dalai Lama's nephew continues the work of his sister in writing about their grandmother. Their grandmother provided the strength of their family. This book, gleaned from notes taken by her grandchildren, cover her life from peasant origins in Tibet to the escape and exile to India after the Chinese Communist takeover in 1959. The Dalai Lama does not take center stage in this book, thus leading me to think that the title of this book is all wrong. The subtitle A Mother's Autobiogaphy should have sufficed. Or, how about Mother Lama? Or The Dalai Lama's Mother?
The Dalai Lama's mother described herself as a simple woman in a simple world, and the beauty of this book is truly is its simplicity and honesty.
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I really loved this account of the life of the Dalai Lama's mother. It's roughly written which matches nicely with the simple but detailed accounts of her life.
What an interesting life Diki Tsering had. She was born a peasant girl, living the simple farm life which all changed when her fifth child was recognized at age four as the incarnation of the Dalai Lama, the highest religious and political leader in Tibet! All of a sudden this poor, illiterate girl found herself in the company of aristocracy. Even though the book is a bit choppy, you can tell it's written from taped interviews, it is still a good story.
Very good, very descriptive of her early life in Amdo before the birth of her children (specifically the Dalai Lama) and her move to Lhasa. It was written by her son, I believe, but basically dictated to him (she had like 10 kids). More about her than the Dalai Lama, so the title is a little deceptive as she stops giving her opinion of him once he's enthroned, but it's enlightening all the same.
Very interesting glimpse into the lifestyle of a Tibetan woman and her customs as a child and young married woman.Wow! Those stories do not disappoint! Wished she shared more about her feelings of what it is like to be the mother of the Dali Lama. Short easy to read. Last half was a little confusing since I am not very familiar with Tibetan/Chinese history.
I'm on chapter 15 of 28 chapters. So far, I've thought it was slow, mainly cultural life of the Dalai Lama's mother's upbringing. I probably need this to relate to what I will read in the near future. Chapter 15 is titled "Ocean of Wisdo," where Diki Tsering tells of the Dalai Lama's birth, etc. I think it'll read faster & I'm looking forward to finishing the book.
I borrowed this one from a friend. A quick read to learn how the Dalai Lama was born to this Tibetan woman. It's very spiritual; the Tibetan culture is rich in traditions and signs that are not logical to most western cultures. As a child, the Dalai Lama was able to pick out things "he" owned in a prior life as a former Lama.
Simplemente FANTASTICO!!! Gran relato, increible espiritu de la madre del Dalai Lama y las costumbres tan distintas en el Tibet! Gran ejemplo! Los admiro, respeto, amo. Hay mucho que entender y aprender de la gran Civilizacion Tibetana y hay que protegerla para que perdure por SIEMPRE!!! Ohm Mani Padme Hung!
Robert and I watched a documentary detailing this story, and the parents were both honored and horrified when their son was plucked from obscurity to become the Dalai Lama. Looking forward to reading his mother's version of this fascinating story.
Love this woman. Read it in an afternoon, not complicated. More about her experiences than the Dalai Lamas, which is fine.... Just little misleading title. Worth it to understand the life of an amazing matriarch.
I wanted to read this book since I was in my teens. Finally found it online.
I think it's an important book to read for everyone who wants to know the Tibetan culture better and to understand it's history.
A very interesting insight into Tibetan life and culture. I enjoyed the book, but it is not well written. Much of the information and experiences related were fascinating, but it was very disjointed.
This was really great to read after meeting The Dalai Lama in person. Whenyou meet HH you get the sense of the "everyday " person, not someone special, or better than you are. He is very real.