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Secret Life: An Autobiography

3.47 of 5 stars 3.47 · rating details · 76 ratings · 6 reviews
At the age of five, Michael Ryan was molested by a neighbor. Nearly 40 years later, he found himself methodically preparing to seduce a girl who was barely more than a child. As Ryan describes his free fall into sexual obsession, he creates an autobiography that is at once harrowing and redemptive, heartbreaking and profoundly moral. "By turns repelling and seductive . . . ...more
Paperback , 356 pages
Published June 25th 1996 by Vintage (first published 1995)
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Paul Bryant
A prizewinning poet confesses his sex addiction, reveals he was sexually molested at the age of five, gives a painful account of his horrible violent alcoholic father and tells us all he himself is the loathesomest of humans and ought to be dead.

Could be pretty interesting, I thought. Well, it really isn't.

All the above is in the first 50 pages. For the next 250 pages we get a really tedious description of growing up in 50s/60s America. We've had this a kazillion times before in better books th
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Todd Jenkins
An incredibly ugly, painful, life-changing memoir from one of America's finest poets. Michael Ryan went through the earthly equivalent of hell for many, many years, progressing from molestation as a child through a crushing sex addiction and the torture of concealing it all. It unveils the dark story that colors so much of Ryan's poetry, yet bears an unmistakable twinge of hope.
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Dec 11, 2008 Liz marked it as to-read
Heard about this "icky memoir" from an article about literary overshares. could be interesting?
Julene
This is a brave book that is well written. It explores sexual trauma as a child and how it impacted his sexuality as an adult. It might be a hard book for many to read.
Craig
a memoir that I thoroughly enjoyed. Well written book on sexual addiction, childhood molestation. It is a very honest book. It doesn't ask for sympathy.
Kevin
Really interesting memoir about compulsions and sexual addiction.
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