Interesting book. I've read Slash's book. I've read Adler's book. Both gave unique accounts of their lives and what they went through in GnR. Their books were a bit more salacious than Duff's. Probably because they used professional writers to help them and the publishers wanted to sell books. Since Duff wrote his own book he probably doesn't feel his daughters need to hear the exact details. I respect that. I wish this book was a little more detailed. I would have liked to have found out more a
Interesting book. I've read Slash's book. I've read Adler's book. Both gave unique accounts of their lives and what they went through in GnR. Their books were a bit more salacious than Duff's. Probably because they used professional writers to help them and the publishers wanted to sell books. Since Duff wrote his own book he probably doesn't feel his daughters need to hear the exact details. I respect that. I wish this book was a little more detailed. I would have liked to have found out more about the lawsuits in the 2000s. I would have liked to have learned more about Axl's assistant Beta (was she the Yoko of the group?) or at least Duff's take on her. What is the real feud between Slash and Axl? Even in Slash's book I still have no idea why Axl, recently called Slash a cancer and wrote a song (Sorry) about Slash, hates him so much. I know Duff said this is about me and my journey but giving the reader more insight between Slash and Axl might have been interesting. The feud between Axl and Nirvana? There was never any mention of this as I recall. Since Duff is a Seattle guy and wishes he could have done more for Kurt Cobain I would have thought this would have been a perfect thing to talk about. What were Duff's thoughts on the over the top videos? Did he like them? Hate them? What were his favorites?
Duff getting sober and kicking ass was inspirational. It definitely inspired me. I think Duff might turn some lives around. He trained at The House of Champions in the San Fernando Valley. They taught some lessons last year at my Special Ed school that I work at and did an incredible job. It was interesting to read Duff hailing the HOC and knowing they really did a great job with the Special Ed students. I am hoping someday I can go mountain biking with Duff in the Santa Monica Mountains. ;) Then I will get the real lowdown! ;)
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I'm not going to do a full review for this since it's pretty obvious what it's about. I will say that it was non-stop interesting and a very smooth read. However, 'It's NOT Easy' to read especially about things like the vomit...ugh!!
**On a side note...for all my romance reader friends, I do have to say I don't think we will
ever
read one of our books about a musician having sex with a girl in a cockroach infested apartment and the girl being okay with it!!
and it's definitely interesting to know
I'm not going to do a full review for this since it's pretty obvious what it's about. I will say that it was non-stop interesting and a very smooth read. However, 'It's NOT Easy' to read especially about things like the vomit...ugh!!
**On a side note...for all my romance reader friends, I do have to say I don't think we will
ever
read one of our books about a musician having sex with a girl in a cockroach infested apartment and the girl being okay with it!!
and it's definitely interesting to know that you can cure the clap by eating fish food....who knew?
**Not that you'll ever see this, but WTG Duff. I'm glad you pulled yourself out and have the life & family you always wanted. Stay Strong! ♥
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This book is why I love reading rock autobiographies. Duff comes across as intelligent and self-aware, but he doesn't act like he's always been that way. He admits to past mistakes and stupidity while he was living it up with Guns N Roses. He shares embarrassing stories about drugs and drinking, including throwing up, then consuming the vomit because there was alcohol in it. Instead of glorifying his former rock lifestyle, he focuses on how he overcame things. He fell in love, married, and now h
This book is why I love reading rock autobiographies. Duff comes across as intelligent and self-aware, but he doesn't act like he's always been that way. He admits to past mistakes and stupidity while he was living it up with Guns N Roses. He shares embarrassing stories about drugs and drinking, including throwing up, then consuming the vomit because there was alcohol in it. Instead of glorifying his former rock lifestyle, he focuses on how he overcame things. He fell in love, married, and now has two daughters; he enrolled in community college so he could go on to get a college degree; he took up exercising and bicycling to stay sober. He never comes off as holier-than-thou, but I love that the book focuses more on what he's doing now than idolizing how he used to be. While the stream-of-consciousness chapters from his drug induced times are incredibly gripping, it's even more impressive how he writes the rest of the narrative. Though he gives credit to a ghost writer, I believe the reader is actually hearing Duff's true voice, because he's an intelligent man (as demonstrated by his 4.0 GPA in college), and he's been writing his own columns for several years now. Highly recommended, regardless of how you feel about GNR.
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I am NOT a hardcore GNR fan, not even a GNR fan at all, but I really loved this book. I used every spare moment to read it and finished in two days. Sex, drugs, rock n' roll, and an inspirational story! Mostly, I think I was really into it because the writing was surprisingly good. I had heard Duff speak on the radio and could tell that he was intelligent and very articulate, making it likely that he actually wrote his own story.
I highly recommend this book to just about anyone who wants a drama
I am NOT a hardcore GNR fan, not even a GNR fan at all, but I really loved this book. I used every spare moment to read it and finished in two days. Sex, drugs, rock n' roll, and an inspirational story! Mostly, I think I was really into it because the writing was surprisingly good. I had heard Duff speak on the radio and could tell that he was intelligent and very articulate, making it likely that he actually wrote his own story.
I highly recommend this book to just about anyone who wants a dramatic tale of the rock n roll scene in LA and Seattle in the 80s and 90s.
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After finishing Slash's biography, I fell into a catatonic state. You know, I'm a huge fan of Guns n' Roses. Like, HUGE. And, well, the break-up part wasn't that easy to read. Probably because I always hoped for a reunion, and finishing Slash's book destroyed all my hopes D:
Duff's biography, though, left me in a catatonic-ly positive state.
He's such
sweetheart
. He's honest, funny, and..Well, he's kinda hot.
The part that moved me the most, I guess, was the Axl-and-Duff-London-thing. They
hugged
,
After finishing Slash's biography, I fell into a catatonic state. You know, I'm a huge fan of Guns n' Roses. Like, HUGE. And, well, the break-up part wasn't that easy to read. Probably because I always hoped for a reunion, and finishing Slash's book destroyed all my hopes D:
Duff's biography, though, left me in a catatonic-ly positive state.
He's such
sweetheart
. He's honest, funny, and..Well, he's kinda hot.
The part that moved me the most, I guess, was the Axl-and-Duff-London-thing. They
hugged
, and I was like: LET ME LOVE YOU FOREVAAAAAAH!
(Oh, to all those of you who think Axl is an asshole/jerk/douche-bag/idiot..Screw you. As Duff wrote: he can be the most tender person in this world.)
Anyway. Duff McKagan took his wife (I love you, Susan!) and their two daughters to see Taylor Swift. LMAO. I love Taylor, but the fact that
Duff McKagan
went to see a Taylor Swift concert is just too hilarious.
Owh, the prologue. One of my favorite parts. I don't know why.
"Grace has already told me and her mom to stay completely invisibile. Her exact words: 'You're
not
invited.' Ah, they joys of parenthood." LOL.
“It’s So Easy (and Other Lies)” is the most compelling book I’ve picked up in a while. Duff McKagan is an excellent writer with a highly accessible style and his story is nothing if not riveting. Indeed, McKagan himself comes across as highly accessible and deeply grounded in his art. All of which makes this a very, very enjoyable, if disturbing, read but, as the book progressed, particularly as it described his recovery, I found myself more and more removed from his story, and it took me a whil
“It’s So Easy (and Other Lies)” is the most compelling book I’ve picked up in a while. Duff McKagan is an excellent writer with a highly accessible style and his story is nothing if not riveting. Indeed, McKagan himself comes across as highly accessible and deeply grounded in his art. All of which makes this a very, very enjoyable, if disturbing, read but, as the book progressed, particularly as it described his recovery, I found myself more and more removed from his story, and it took me a while to discover why that was.
I’m no rock and roll junky - I had never heard of Duff McKagan prior to reading his book – but I found many, many things in his story with which I strongly identified. I think it’s safe to assume that anyone in recovery from, or in the throes of, any addiction will see a lot that they recognize in McKagan, regardless of how deep the insanity reached in his particular case. As with so many addicts, he is a super-achiever; he suffered profound childhood trauma; he’s seen more than his fair share of death. All of these things are exceedingly common among addicts. I also personally related to his love of the outdoors (especially mountain biking) and his dedication to his art. He is an admirable and humble man by any conventional measure, and he's somebody most among us would probably be glad to call a friend.
So what is it that began to turn me off about his story? I guess there were a couple of things: First was, though he emphasized his common-man roots and he has indeed held true to his upbringing despite the temptations of his station, he seems to place an undue emphasis on the stature of those friends with whom he surrounds himself in his recovery. Though McKagan is certainly one of the best at what he does and it makes sense that he would surround himself with people of similar ambition and achievement, his emphasis on this fact made his recovery seem considerably less grounded to me.
Secondly, his story begins to make clear that his initial recovery was actually the replacement of one addiction with another but he writes this section with what seems to be a complete absence of awareness to this fact. Now I may be an idiot for not recognizing the literary device he’s using here (e.g., perhaps this seeming dearth of awareness is really meant to emphasize it), but it really seems that he never acknowledges this rather salient fact. He does briefly mention seeking help after his relapse but it is the briefest of mentions. As such, I never really know whether he finally began to discover the roots of his addiction. As someone in recovery, that would’ve been nice to know.
All-in-all, I enjoyed McKagan’s book on a deep, almost visceral, level - as a writer, his skills are stellar – but I think I hoped for a better story of recovery and redemption. I inferred that his, ultimately, is just such a story but this book doesn’t quite tell that part of the tale. Otherwise, I’d have given it five stars, as it’s really a very good book and he seems like a good, good man – someone from whom we could all learn a lot.
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What I'm about to do is unfair, because I am going to compare art, to art. The reason I hope to get away with it is because when it happened to my book, I enjoyed it. "This book is what the movie `Funny People' should have been!" a reviewer exclaimed, meaning he finally found in my words what he had been searching for in another medium. That out of the way, my proclamation is: This book is what "Mustaine: A Heavy Metal Memoir" should have been.
The differences between the two books, and therefore
What I'm about to do is unfair, because I am going to compare art, to art. The reason I hope to get away with it is because when it happened to my book, I enjoyed it. "This book is what the movie `Funny People' should have been!" a reviewer exclaimed, meaning he finally found in my words what he had been searching for in another medium. That out of the way, my proclamation is: This book is what "Mustaine: A Heavy Metal Memoir" should have been.
The differences between the two books, and therefore the two authors, is vast, as stark a contrast as day to night. Where Dave Mustaine is a finger-pointing child, always blaming others for his lot in life and ultimately taking the easiest of paths to justify all his previous behaviors (by finding religion), Duff is a man. He takes responsibility for every single one of his actions. He never blames others, he never makes excuses, Duff always squares his shoulders and does his best to discover and explain why he thinks he acted in any manner he may have. Though a book involving Guns & Roses could contain a vitriolic chapter railing against Axl Rose and his ego, Duff instead exposes his own shortcomings as a band member. Instead of blaming Axl for the downfall of Guns, Duff does what few people are willing to when reflecting upon the past: he examines his own actions at the time. And as he examines, he does so with the clarity of thought that you cannot change the past, you can only improve upon your character and move forward. There is no "I should have..." in this work, there is only "This is what I learned."
Duff employs a simple, yet catchy technique to provide flow to the narrative arc of this book: shifting space and time. Like many memoirs before him--Andy Summers in "One Train Later," Juliana Hatfield in "When I Grow Up"--Duff takes us from past to present occasionally, giving the reader a moment to see where he's at in life while writing his reflections of yesteryear. Duff seems to wrangle the timeline switch a little better than those two books, however, and every time we bounce from the past to the present it is a nice respite from the story at hand. Instead of any bit of the book becoming a drag, the narrative constantly refreshes itself, making you anticipate a return to the interrupted tale.
"It's So Easy" is a book about soul-searching, but it is not done in a whiny or sappy manner. This book is about being thoughtful, and demands focused attention from the reader. Personally, I devoured it in less than two days. Where Dave Mustaine ends his novel still a child, Duff emerges a father, husband, son, and brother... a man willing to continually examine the world around him and interact with it in a way befitting the whole of his friends and family, not just the ego in him.
Absolutely recommended for anyone who enjoys reading, not just those who were fans of the original Guns & Roses.
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stupidus
Or could the reason be that Mustaine and McKagan differ from one another in more than just one way?
You think they could they even have very different
Or could the reason be that Mustaine and McKagan differ from one another in more than just one way?
You think they could they even have very different personalities to begin with? You think that's possible, or are we all the same and reach the same conclusions - eventually?
I too felt that Mustaine's biography certainly was lacking, yet what we got to learn about the man mainly came across as sincere and honest.
Mustaine seems like he's always been this pretty brash, self-assertive guy as opposed to Duff who has probably always been more or less the kinda guy who is more subdued, more low-key, someone who might actually prefer staying in the background.
Mustaine just never was like that. He wanted to be the center of attention, the center of his universe, like - you guessed it - most band leader do.
Be that as it may I personally can't fault any man or woman for being what s/he is. That's the base level and only then you can even hope of understanding the reasons and motivations why you do exactly what you do.
I fully agree with your concept of replacing one addiction with another (drugs vs. religion).
I haven't read McKagan's book but by all accounts it's a good one. I don't know what his exact replacement drug was but I'm guessing if he had one it was probably his family.
Duff's book is his retrospective on his life. Where as Mustaine's book was more or less a memoir of Megadeth even if Mustaine himself wouldn't admit it or see what the difference is.
Then there's yet another aspect. Duff certainly wrote something in GN'R but we all know whose band it really was. I think Izzy was ten times more of a songwriter compared to Duff if we're talking about their time in GN'R.
Basically - in those days - Duff was the guy who liked getting wasted. His main musical contribution to the band was him playing the bass as opposed to actually writing songs for the band to play.
Had he too been as egotistical as Axl or Slash there probably wouldn't have been any room for GN'R to ever get their shit together in the first place. Stradlin and McKagan kept GN'R shit together simply by letting these two guys dominate the stage.
Not saying McKagan wouldn't be gifted songwriter in his own right. Just saying that he didn't get to play that part much in GN'R. In those moments where one might be tempted to even call GN'R a team it would honestly mainly include just Axl, Slash and most likely Izzy.
But when we dissect the band and see it for what it was, where the majority of original creative stemmed from, we know it was born out of Axl. GN'R was Axl who had this charismatic, unique looking sidekick as a lead guitarist.
It's the same with Megadeth. It was Mustaine's project. His holy vengeance on Metallica and for all other nay-sayers (or whom he simply viewed as such).
We've yet to see Mustaine's autobiography.
Mustaine is one of the fastest thinking guys in popular music history. His real downfall is his almost nonexistent education and what seems almost like a refusal of not willing to get his news from other media outlets besides Alex Jones.
And his apparently devout christian beliefs don't exactly help him in breaking away from such a mental prison landscape.
It is a huge mindfuck really why some of the smartest people around so frequently tend to showcase almost the most retarded side imaginable to man as well.
CDTE is still one of the finest metal albums ever recorded. Where he went from there and why is anyone's guess. I lost interest in Megadeth around 1997 already.
They had a good go until the engine started to choke and stall. I'm just crossing my fingers that Mustaine is a man of his words and will let this year's record be Megadeth's final.
This guy could easily operate in any musical sphere and I for one hope he will spread his wings and see what else he can do besides play metal.
I'm not familar with McKagan's work unfortunately, other than from GN'R of course. But I don't honestly think I have ever much paid attention to bass playing other than that I acknowledge that it's there.
Only thing that matter to me is the songs themselves: whether they are good or bad or at least interesting. YMMV.
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May 24, 2013 02:56AM
After reading Clapton's book (terrific) and then Keith Richards book (even better) I didn't know what to expect from McKagen. Clapton clearly didn't write his book himself, and Richards read as if he was talking to you. I expected McKagen's book to be a big tell all about the debauchery that was GnR, but instead I found a very well written, well thought out story about his personal journey. I really enjoyed this story, but frankly, would have loved to hear more detail about GnR's amazing run. An
After reading Clapton's book (terrific) and then Keith Richards book (even better) I didn't know what to expect from McKagen. Clapton clearly didn't write his book himself, and Richards read as if he was talking to you. I expected McKagen's book to be a big tell all about the debauchery that was GnR, but instead I found a very well written, well thought out story about his personal journey. I really enjoyed this story, but frankly, would have loved to hear more detail about GnR's amazing run. And I especially would have liked to have heard more about his relationship with Slash and Axl.
And why I really enjoyed this book, it feels like McKagen held back on some of the more sordid details because he has daughters. Everybody is his friend...no one is a prick...and it all sort of works out in the end. While I wound up feeling good for Duff that his life turned out ok, I do wish he had taken the gloves off a bit more.
Disclaimer - I may be abit biased as Duff has been my not-so-secret rocker crush for 20 years.
Quite simply, if you're looking for a tell-all and airing of dirty Guns N Roses laundry, you need to look elsewhere. This is the tale of one mans journey that happened to include the greatest rock band of it's time. It's hard to read - I knew Duff was a drinker but had no idea just how deep into a pit he fell - but it felt really inspirational to me. This is a guy that was a member of this HUGE band, li
Disclaimer - I may be abit biased as Duff has been my not-so-secret rocker crush for 20 years.
Quite simply, if you're looking for a tell-all and airing of dirty Guns N Roses laundry, you need to look elsewhere. This is the tale of one mans journey that happened to include the greatest rock band of it's time. It's hard to read - I knew Duff was a drinker but had no idea just how deep into a pit he fell - but it felt really inspirational to me. This is a guy that was a member of this HUGE band, lived through it's implosion by drinking and doing cocaine, survived a burst pancreas and has come out the other side.
The book made me tear up twice - first when he recounts his reunion with Axl Rose after 13 years and again in the acknowledgments at the end to his daughters. This is a man that I've spent about 2/3's of my life following and it's wonderful to finally read HIS story, in his own words, knowing that he's in the best place he's ever been.
I rarely give books five stars, even books I thoroughly enjoy. I like to reserve five stars for the best of the best. (i.e. how can I give Good In Bed the same score as The Diary of Anne Frank?) It's So Easy and Other Lies may just be my favorite book of all time. Maybe it's because I was a HUGE Guns n' Roses fan growing up. Maybe it's because I wanted to marry Duff McKagan from about age 14-17 (obsessed may have been the right word). All of that aside, this book was well written, funny, and cra
I rarely give books five stars, even books I thoroughly enjoy. I like to reserve five stars for the best of the best. (i.e. how can I give Good In Bed the same score as The Diary of Anne Frank?) It's So Easy and Other Lies may just be my favorite book of all time. Maybe it's because I was a HUGE Guns n' Roses fan growing up. Maybe it's because I wanted to marry Duff McKagan from about age 14-17 (obsessed may have been the right word). All of that aside, this book was well written, funny, and crazy! I thought I knew what the life of a "rock star" might be like, but I really had no idea. The story of Guns n' Roses was just part of this book, but there was so much more. I think anyone who has any interest at all in rock music should read this. I also rarely reread books, but I am keeping this one. I will most likely read it again in the future.
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This is one of the best books I have read in a long time. I finished it in under two hours, it is that good. What a talented writer Duff is. His story is captivating and I am so glad he is in such a good space now. A very humble, intelligent man. Perfect book to start the new year with, so inspirational. I hope Duff writes another book on anything, just so I can read his writing again. Will have to check out his columns. I confess to tearing up a couple of times whilst reading but it's all good.
This is one of the best books I have read in a long time. I finished it in under two hours, it is that good. What a talented writer Duff is. His story is captivating and I am so glad he is in such a good space now. A very humble, intelligent man. Perfect book to start the new year with, so inspirational. I hope Duff writes another book on anything, just so I can read his writing again. Will have to check out his columns. I confess to tearing up a couple of times whilst reading but it's all good. A MUST READ if you are a fan of great writing. Thank you for this book Duff.
I have a soft spot for rock and roll memoirs, and I've read quite a few. I've found that, overall, they tend to be quite self-indulgent, salacious, and entertaining; I've also found they tend to NOT be well-written, thoughtful, or deep.
I've never been a big G'n'R fan, although I appreciate their unique contribution to the late 80s - early 90s rock scene. However, when I recently came across an interview with Duff McKagan on an afternoon TV talk show, I was struck by his intelligence, thoughtfuln
I have a soft spot for rock and roll memoirs, and I've read quite a few. I've found that, overall, they tend to be quite self-indulgent, salacious, and entertaining; I've also found they tend to NOT be well-written, thoughtful, or deep.
I've never been a big G'n'R fan, although I appreciate their unique contribution to the late 80s - early 90s rock scene. However, when I recently came across an interview with Duff McKagan on an afternoon TV talk show, I was struck by his intelligence, thoughtfulness, and sense of personal responsibility (three things one doesn't generally expect to see in a world class hard-ass rock star). So I decided to read his memoir.
Imagine my surprise to find that his book is just as intelligent, thoughtful, and personally responsible as he appeared to be on camera. His story is occasionally harrowing, yet he casts no stones at his bandmates and friends, only mourning the ones who didn't survive. Now a husband and father of two girls,he is discreet on some aspects of his past (I.e. sexual), and he glosses over some of the intraband conflicts, but he is unsparing as to his own personal failings with alcohol and drugs. After these things nearly killed him, he managed to find a way back through exercise, martial arts, education, and the support and love of his family and friends. The paragraphs where he described his redemption through his newfound joy of literature were incredibly moving to me.
There is still debauchery and fun and the joy of raw musical expression to be found here, and his descriptions of the early Seattle punk scene made me feel like I was there. This was damn near a five star book for me. Enjoy.
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Suzanne Feinstein
Wonderful review, Tam. I definitely want to read this now, and I think Scott would love it as well. Thanks for writing this!
Jan 31, 2012 03:01PM
First off, I'm not a huge GNR fan. I like them of course, but what I mainly wanted to read about was Duff's pre-GNR experience in the Seattle punk scene of the late '70s/early '80s.
That said, I did find all of the GNR bits rather fascinating. Duff is a great writer; every time I picked up the book I was immediately drawn in. The frustrating thing about the book was that each chapter would end and leave me slightly unsatisfied. I wanted to know more. I felt like he held back and left a lot of det
First off, I'm not a huge GNR fan. I like them of course, but what I mainly wanted to read about was Duff's pre-GNR experience in the Seattle punk scene of the late '70s/early '80s.
That said, I did find all of the GNR bits rather fascinating. Duff is a great writer; every time I picked up the book I was immediately drawn in. The frustrating thing about the book was that each chapter would end and leave me slightly unsatisfied. I wanted to know more. I felt like he held back and left a lot of details out. In the end though, I think that was why I enjoyed it so much. He doesn't embellish, he doesn't exaggerate... he's just Duff. I appreciated that.
The way he kicked his addictions & turned his life around is incredibly inspiring, it's my favorite part of the book actually. Can't help but wish him all the best in future endeavors, which I hope includes writing another book someday.
I was pretty young when GN'R released their 1st album, but theirs were some of my first favorite songs. I didn't know much about the band members and could only name a couple before reading this (and Duff wasn't one of them). I chose this book bc it was one of the highest rated non-fiction books on Amazon. I found the story riveting - Duff is a talented storyteller and just kind of an amazing person in general. His personality shines through, and his balance of humor, humility, wisdom, and compa
I was pretty young when GN'R released their 1st album, but theirs were some of my first favorite songs. I didn't know much about the band members and could only name a couple before reading this (and Duff wasn't one of them). I chose this book bc it was one of the highest rated non-fiction books on Amazon. I found the story riveting - Duff is a talented storyteller and just kind of an amazing person in general. His personality shines through, and his balance of humor, humility, wisdom, and compassion is very special and unique. He is a person who has put a tremendous amount of thought and work into becoming the very best person he can be. I also thought it was very inspiring - if you've been thinking of pushing yourself to tackle a challenge like going back to school or getting sober, I highly recommend reading this to help light a fire under you and motivate you. It was a coincidence that I finished this on New Year's Day, but it was the perfect book to help me start this year with a positive and hopeful frame of mind. It was an emotional ride and I teared up a few times but overall it was very uplifting and I'm so happy that his story has such a happy ending. I am a fan now and will be curious to seek out some of his articles - I'll likely read this book again at some point and I'd surely read any other books he writes.
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I always liked Guns & Roses, but I would never call myself a huge fan. I've had several copies of
Appetite for Destruction
over the years, and the first concert I ever saw (Ok, first rock concert) was Aerosmith with Guns & Roses as the opener, way back in August of 1988. I never really got into them enough to actually learn about the members other then the negative stuff that one reads in the paper.......the excessive drug and booze, Axl Rose throwing tantrums on stage or not showing up
I always liked Guns & Roses, but I would never call myself a huge fan. I've had several copies of
Appetite for Destruction
over the years, and the first concert I ever saw (Ok, first rock concert) was Aerosmith with Guns & Roses as the opener, way back in August of 1988. I never really got into them enough to actually learn about the members other then the negative stuff that one reads in the paper.......the excessive drug and booze, Axl Rose throwing tantrums on stage or not showing up, things like that.
So, I was amazed to start reading this book and discovering more about how the band formed, as well as the personal story of the author, bassist Duff McKagan. My awareness of him up until I read his book was that I admired his bass work (G&R songs are loaded with awesome bass lines, same with his work in Velvet Revolver) and that he came from Seattle.
I found his book not only informative, but inspiring. Faced with serious health issues related to his massive booze and coke habit, he dove into physical exercise and training with his
Sensei
, Benny Urquidez, to get clean and a Third-times-a-charm marriage and father to two daughters, and to top it all off he goes back to school, going to Seattle University for a business degree.
As far as the book goes, I enjoyed how he started book, with chapters in the beginning alternating between his youth in Seattle and later on when he makes the move to L.A. at 20 to make his mark on the music world, with the chapters eventually coming together around the time that Guns & Roses formed. From then on the chapters are fairly linear, but no less intriguing. It was well writing, with some shades of humor and a really frank look at a past that could have killed him 18 years ago.
Awesome, Awesome, Awesome. When I first started to read this book, I though, "Here we go, another book about partying like a "rock star", drugs, women, destruction" I was partially right. However this book was gripping, insightful, motivational and truly inspiring.
How this man survived the 80's and is even alive today is beyond me. McKagan takes you into the dark annals of his life story. This man "partied like a rock star". From his early days of his panic attacks to the heavy alcohol induced h
Awesome, Awesome, Awesome. When I first started to read this book, I though, "Here we go, another book about partying like a "rock star", drugs, women, destruction" I was partially right. However this book was gripping, insightful, motivational and truly inspiring.
How this man survived the 80's and is even alive today is beyond me. McKagan takes you into the dark annals of his life story. This man "partied like a rock star". From his early days of his panic attacks to the heavy alcohol induced hospital stays, McKagan takes you step-by-step into his dark world and the life saving steps he had to take.
The chapter describing his first use of crack was so vivid, I thought myself to be the one using. The first 9 chapters are a bit confusing because it jumps back and forth too much however after chapter 9, it really starts to focus on the GN'R days.
The scary part about this book is how strangely close it resembles my life. Obviously not in the the talent, success, or even the level addiction, but more in the steps he took and how they specifically mirrored my thoughts. For instance, he talks about how he found reading. He devoured everything he could find. He wanted to read all of the books others had read when they were in high school and he was playing gigs hammered. I too recently (a few years) found reading as an avenue of release and escape.
Mr. McKagan showed how resilience is sometimes more important and impressive than just stamina. Even after getting clean, he tripped up but found the strength to immediately fix his errors and get back to normalcy. He has written for Seattle news papers, Playboy, and ESPN.com, is a good father, husband, and still rocks with the best of them.
Well, assuming that Izzy and Axl aren't going to be hunching down at their word processors anytime soon, I'm finished with the original-GNR-lineup memoirs. And I'm glad I got to Duff's last; it didn't have the fascinating trainwreck appeal of Steven Adler's or the absurdist black comedy of Slash's, but it's definitely the best-written of the three. Duff's hella likeable (he comes across, in almost every detail, as fiercely loyal, with a quiet, intellectual streak and a good sense of humor) and h
Well, assuming that Izzy and Axl aren't going to be hunching down at their word processors anytime soon, I'm finished with the original-GNR-lineup memoirs. And I'm glad I got to Duff's last; it didn't have the fascinating trainwreck appeal of Steven Adler's or the absurdist black comedy of Slash's, but it's definitely the best-written of the three. Duff's hella likeable (he comes across, in almost every detail, as fiercely loyal, with a quiet, intellectual streak and a good sense of humor) and he seems to have weathered his time as a rock star better than the others.
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june book club. quite a change of pace from north korean escapees and mormon polygamy. OR IS IT.
ETA - so good! loved it. i think people expecting a sleazy tell-all would be disappointed, but i loved reading about not only his time with gn'r, but his life and recovery since then. DUFF MCKAGAN GOES TO TAYLOR SWIFT CONCERTS.
Karen
He has a blog on the Seattle Weekly that is pretty good too. I also just remembered that pre-Justin Bieber, Ruby used to carry this book around kissin
He has a blog on the Seattle Weekly that is pretty good too. I also just remembered that pre-Justin Bieber, Ruby used to carry this book around kissing it all day. Ha ha ha!
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Jun 18, 2013 08:58AM
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ha! i totally remember you mentioning that. ruby and her crush on duff mckagan. your kids are cool.
Jun 20, 2013 06:04AM
I was completely unable to tear my eyes off this book. I've been a fan of Duff since back in the day when Guns N' Roses hit the scene, so I don't know how this flew under my radar. It's an incredibly inspirational story, and each time a song was mentioned an new earworm was born.
Duff, if I was a judge on the X Factor, and this was your best foot forward, I would have said "you nailed it".
This is how a rock n' roll bio should look, sound and feel. I applaud the writing style, even though the text was a little sesquipedalian at times....
Anyway, this book was interesting, easy to follow, the stories connected and flowed well. Above all, there was a positive change, an about turn in the face of adversity which resonated well. I think all celebs should read this. I loved the
Duff, if I was a judge on the X Factor, and this was your best foot forward, I would have said "you nailed it".
This is how a rock n' roll bio should look, sound and feel. I applaud the writing style, even though the text was a little sesquipedalian at times....
Anyway, this book was interesting, easy to follow, the stories connected and flowed well. Above all, there was a positive change, an about turn in the face of adversity which resonated well. I think all celebs should read this. I loved the humbleness which exuded from this book's pages.
I think I've just found my top celeb whom I'd like to have a cup of tea and a sit down chat with. If I had the opportunity to meet Duff McKagan, I would like to know more about the struggle to overcome addiction and so completely turn one's self around in more detail.
It's really not necessary to trawl through every last intricate detail of one's not so glamorous past to format a relevant portrait of the author today, so I disagree with anyone who think it needs more muck raking and dirt. This is, after all, a bio and not a tell-all.
In closing, a sensibly and tactfully written book, which serves to inspire, without standing on others to prove one's prowess.
When I first encountered this book, I assumed it was going to be another book about a drugged up rock star. Having already read a few other autobiographies, I was quickly growing tired of the format. And Duff? Well, he was just the bass guitarist for Guns n’ Roses. What more could he possibly have to say about the crazy tales of one of the worlds greatest, and most dysfunctional, rock bands that I didn’t already know?
It turns out, quite a bit.
First, just over half of Duff’s book is actually an
When I first encountered this book, I assumed it was going to be another book about a drugged up rock star. Having already read a few other autobiographies, I was quickly growing tired of the format. And Duff? Well, he was just the bass guitarist for Guns n’ Roses. What more could he possibly have to say about the crazy tales of one of the worlds greatest, and most dysfunctional, rock bands that I didn’t already know?
It turns out, quite a bit.
First, just over half of Duff’s book is actually an account of him getting clean and sober. Sure, the other autobiographies mention this, but almost in a way that it portrays it was too easy for them. But Duff actually dedicates so much more of his novel to the effort and challenge of this process. And the insight into addiction and overcoming it is worth it’s weight in gold. Duff’s account displays for all to see that it is clearly not easy. What else this novel outlines wonderfully is the business side of music. I also found Duff’s account of Slash and him cold calling friends and fans to sell pre-purchased tickets to a venue just so the venue would allow them to play there was absolute gold. What’s also a miracle is that these guys made it into the 21st century alive and still playing. What is clear in McKagan’s book is that none of them ever even expected to.
For me, a sign of a good book is not wanting it to end. As I came closer and closer to those last pages of the book, I just wanted it to keep going. There was still more for me to learn here. And no, I’m not saying I'm an addict, or a recovering addict. What I was learning from this book, was how to become a better person, a better artist, and how to strive for everything I want, no matter the challenges. Duff’s novel has all the debauchery, madness, and page turning, larger than life stories that the others have, but it also has soul, and a depth to it that makes it a must read, no matter how many you’ve encountered like it before.
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Brilliant autobiography. A beautifully-written tome, bursting with pathos and humour, told from a self-deprecating viewpoint. I've laughed out loud many times. Some of the writing moved me to tears (mind you, I cry easily... but still...)
Duff appears to know that he's on a fast train to destruction throughout his G n R years but is, until he nearly dies, unable to do anything about it.
Duff comes over as an intelligent guy. It feels like he has done the hard work to become emotionally stable - it
Brilliant autobiography. A beautifully-written tome, bursting with pathos and humour, told from a self-deprecating viewpoint. I've laughed out loud many times. Some of the writing moved me to tears (mind you, I cry easily... but still...)
Duff appears to know that he's on a fast train to destruction throughout his G n R years but is, until he nearly dies, unable to do anything about it.
Duff comes over as an intelligent guy. It feels like he has done the hard work to become emotionally stable - it shines through in his writing. I bought this straight after reading 'Slash'. To be honest, I did not even know who Duff McKagan was until recently as I was never a big Guns n Roses fan back in the day, thinking I was too cool for school in the late 1980s, favouring The Smiths, Lloyd Cole and, erm, The Smiths...
I love the Slash autobiography - it's a rollicking read and full of detail (some say too much) but Duff takes time to talk about how things made him FEEL, such as the deaths of two fans at Monsters of Rock. With Duff you feel like he does genuinely care about people. Slash talks constantly about 'some guy', 'some chick', 'some gig', which makes it sound like he doesn't always give a stuff, though I appreciate that his book will have come out of a series of very long interviews with his Rolling Stone mag ghostwriter, Anthony Bozza (who should have edited his work WAY more than he did). Duff is more specific about names and events and is more effusive in his gratitude towards those who helped them.
However, I do get the feeling that Duff holds back in other ways. There's some talk of, ahem, venereal disease, but no real info on the promiscuity (possibly 'cos he wants to protect his wife and kids from the full horror!); he talks about his drug addiction and alcoholism, but not in intricate detail. Is that necessary? Maybe not, but Slash's book makes you understand the day-to-day realities of being an addict and his dual life: sometimes scoring smack in scuzzy places then being a rock god on stage a few hours later.
Duff has tried to write something that has more literary merit than your average rock autobiography. It pitches itself differently. I also suspect it's been very well edited. The role of editing is vastly underrated. I know this... because I work as an editor. Turning something that reads 'okay' into something that truly sparkles is an absolute joy. I suspect that the editing role's been key to elevating Duff's prose. Still, don't mean to detract from the guy's talent. I think the man can write - and write well. (He also writes newspaper columns).
I wholeheartedly recommended this book, rock fan or not, 'cos it is a story about dreams, ambition, trauma, reality, redemption. And, on the quiet, if you like wry humour, it's a bit of a hoot.
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Can’t recall the exact magazine during heydays from where I got this clipping of an old Guns interview – it was so raw and unadulterated I had not an inch of a doubt the band members had probably been actively quoted by the interviewer. I can imagine them all sounding drunk, and dumb. Slash had been interrupting along the lines of ‘hey, who brought that Poison poster here??’ and Duff, if I remember correctly interjected somewhere like ‘we’ve been asked to comment on politics and all that shit an
Can’t recall the exact magazine during heydays from where I got this clipping of an old Guns interview – it was so raw and unadulterated I had not an inch of a doubt the band members had probably been actively quoted by the interviewer. I can imagine them all sounding drunk, and dumb. Slash had been interrupting along the lines of ‘hey, who brought that Poison poster here??’ and Duff, if I remember correctly interjected somewhere like ‘we’ve been asked to comment on politics and all that shit and I really don’t care about all that..’ , if I remember correctly. My thoughts were that they were good musicians, but they lacked formal education.
Which leads me to the strength of this autobiography on how it focused rather well about how far one has gone from his usual self. Duff, particularly of all the member of Guns N Roses. His strong-spirited will to get himself out of mess by building his own recovery program, and by going into college, (and eventually getting into Hemingway, Krakauer..) was probably what stood out in this almost flatliner of a book. Without that, this could only have just been an outline of stuff we already know. And not just an outline, but a general one at that. I had been forewarned, but from all the reviews posted here with mention of how the specifics were left out, I thought those pertained only to the debauchery, which was understandable if you were to set yourself apart from the typical rockstar bio. But man, even the events surrounding several myths about GNR, were just plain, flatout mentioned. True, those may be popular data to most, but we sure would want how it turned from the perspective of one was directly involved.
Izzy left. Gilbey Clarke replaced him. We were asked to sign documents leaving Axl in full control. And so on so forth. It was that straightforward of an outline. But then, as discussed early here, the latter part seemed to have saved the day. Though still plainly stated, the events of his life after GNR was the meat in here- not because it was uncharted territory, but because of the value if wou were think what one has gone through
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I have read Slash's, Adler's, and motley's Nikki's heroin diaries in addition to this. I must say duff Mckagan is the coolest among all the gunners or for that mater among all the rockers. The book was written solely by him unlike the others which were written by professional journalists. The best thing I liked about duff's book is the clarity of the objective he had in his mind for this book. Duff wrote this book to help other addicts understand addiction and how they could use his example to c
I have read Slash's, Adler's, and motley's Nikki's heroin diaries in addition to this. I must say duff Mckagan is the coolest among all the gunners or for that mater among all the rockers. The book was written solely by him unlike the others which were written by professional journalists. The best thing I liked about duff's book is the clarity of the objective he had in his mind for this book. Duff wrote this book to help other addicts understand addiction and how they could use his example to come out of or control their own addiction. He described in detail the whole process of his detox i.e. the things he did to overcome the vampyric addiction to cocaine,vodka and pills (mind you it has got nothing to do with the 12 steps programme). Of course their are some major details about the history of GNR and the relationship among the band members and its good to read about the inside story of GNR from a guy who was an integral part of the band.
Slash and adler's books had all the juicy details about the debauchery, drugs, madness and massive egos involved but whenever it came to explaining the way how they controlled their heroin, coke and liquor addictions, they were silent. Slash for example says at lot of occasions about going cold turkey to detox and that's all. All those juicy details about heroin and debauchery that he has described in the book could have been read from cheap pulp fiction magazines and moreover what purpose did it serve to describe all those excesses and absolute animal like instincts without informing the reader about how to control them. Most of the people already knew about them. Duff's book on the other hand as I mentioned earlier is useful for people who are suffering from addiction. It has a purpose and its not simply a collection of the memories of a junkie who seems to enjoy telling all those horrid tales.
By the way when i read motley's nikki's heroin diaries I almost puked multiple times as it was extremely disgusting and full of torrid tales of an extremely selfish, self centred piece of crap. I started hating this guy after reading it irrespective of the fact whether he is sober or a loving father or whatever. That guy was a sub-human.
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I started reading this on the plane back from NY and found it to be thoroughly enjoyable. At times it was kind of like reading a long Rolling Stone article, one with plenty of interesting music history and one that's full of obstacles and adversity for the subject to overcome but devoid of innuendo and tabloid journalism that often plagues the rock n' roll autobiography.
Duff McKagan's story is about a guy who while in his teens dedicated his life to becoming a professional musician and that by t
I started reading this on the plane back from NY and found it to be thoroughly enjoyable. At times it was kind of like reading a long Rolling Stone article, one with plenty of interesting music history and one that's full of obstacles and adversity for the subject to overcome but devoid of innuendo and tabloid journalism that often plagues the rock n' roll autobiography.
Duff McKagan's story is about a guy who while in his teens dedicated his life to becoming a professional musician and that by the time he left his native Seattle for LA, he'd already made a name for himself playing in such seminal Seattle bands as The Fastbacks and Ten Minute Warning. He had a mission, and in less than a year of living poor and in various flophouses all over town he was able to form and release the most important debut album in rock n roll history, Appetite for Destruction.
The big obstacle in Duff's life is his alcoholism and after nearly dying from a ruptured pancreas from drinking too much, Duff has his moment of clarity and gets his life together by sobering up, getting super healthy, earning a degree in finance, marrying and having kids and becoming a responsible family man and businessman (he was an early investor in Starbucks and Amazon).
I'd recommend It's So Easy to fans of Guns N Roses, hard rock or rock music in general. Famous bands and entertaining stories make up a lot of the book so those wishing to hear about the disolution of GnR, their hard partying ways and the musicians they crossed paths with will definitely be satisfied. I think the Sly Stone story is definitely the most memorable one to me. It's not often that you find a music legend smoking crack in your bathroom.
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I've always loved this man. I jest not! Reading this was like taking a trip back to the late 80's and 90's when they still had such things as midnight record sales, records, and a metal music scene. There was also this little old rock and roll band called Guns N'Roses, and they did set out to and did rule the music scene for a number of years. In this, Duff, the bassist for the band for the entirety of its run, tells the story of his rise from a kid living in Seattle, playing for punk bands, and
I've always loved this man. I jest not! Reading this was like taking a trip back to the late 80's and 90's when they still had such things as midnight record sales, records, and a metal music scene. There was also this little old rock and roll band called Guns N'Roses, and they did set out to and did rule the music scene for a number of years. In this, Duff, the bassist for the band for the entirety of its run, tells the story of his rise from a kid living in Seattle, playing for punk bands, and finding out, after a number of jobs(pastry chef!), that music was his calling. You read about his pretty happy and uneventful chidhood, up to his tough introduction to the music scene, the meteroic rise of GNR, the drug abuse, the enigma known as W. Axl Rose, the girls, the alcoholism that almost killed him(his pancreas exploded in 1994, putting him very close to death), the deaths of very good friends to drugs, the search for the perfect mate, his long road to sobriety, his discovery of fitness as a substitute to drugs and alcohol. All in all, a great book. I would give Slash's book a star higher, based on the fact that he's got a wickedly funny sense of humor, and it gives his book a whole different tone. Duff takes the high road, even relating a story in the last chapter of meeting up with Axl for the first time afer not speaking in 13 years, and having a great dinner and conversation with Axl and his new wife. Most of the questions you had about the band, as well as his other projects(Nuerotic Outsiders, Loaded, Velvet Revolver, etc), are answered in a forthright nature. Duff's serious as all hell about anything he puts his energy into- and that comes through in the writing style. You are just so happy by the end of the book, that you got to see how things evolved, through his eyes. Even more telling, you are happy and smiling when you set the book down. It's a positive book overall, and you feel that way about it after you've finished it. A most enjoyable read.
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Less sensational than Slash's autobiography, Duff's is ultimately more relatable. McKagan's book is a personal journey of a man finding himself. You won't find ANY details about the recording of Appetite (one of rocks greatest achievements in my opinion) or the songwriting process. It's almost entirely about him getting fucked up and finally getting healthy. It's a great story and that I watched it unfold during my MTV watching teen years makes it historically appealing to my generation. Ultimat
Less sensational than Slash's autobiography, Duff's is ultimately more relatable. McKagan's book is a personal journey of a man finding himself. You won't find ANY details about the recording of Appetite (one of rocks greatest achievements in my opinion) or the songwriting process. It's almost entirely about him getting fucked up and finally getting healthy. It's a great story and that I watched it unfold during my MTV watching teen years makes it historically appealing to my generation. Ultimately the difference between this and Slash's book comes down to the drugs they did. Apparently heroin improved Slash's detail orientation while booze made Duff remember the broad emotional strokes of a life under water.
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I liked this rock musician memoir because he doesn't seem to embellish or unnecessarily shit talk the way some other rock musicians who write memoirs (::cough:: Nikki Sixx ::cough::) do. Duff comes across as eloquent and honest and tells his story, and it's a pretty amazing one. Here these guys were, playing in a tiny rehearsal space in Glendale that constantly got raided by cops and then a few years later they have their own private plane and mansions and are playing in countries all over the w
I liked this rock musician memoir because he doesn't seem to embellish or unnecessarily shit talk the way some other rock musicians who write memoirs (::cough:: Nikki Sixx ::cough::) do. Duff comes across as eloquent and honest and tells his story, and it's a pretty amazing one. Here these guys were, playing in a tiny rehearsal space in Glendale that constantly got raided by cops and then a few years later they have their own private plane and mansions and are playing in countries all over the world. I look forward to also reading Slash's book and Steven Adler's book.
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In 1984, at the age of twenty, Duff left his native Seattle—partly to pursue music but mainly to get away from a host of heroin overdoses then decimating his closest group of friends in the local punk scene. In L.A. only a few weeks and still living in his car, he answered a want ad for a bass player placed by someone who identified himself only as “Slash.” Soon after, the most dangerous band in t
In 1984, at the age of twenty, Duff left his native Seattle—partly to pursue music but mainly to get away from a host of heroin overdoses then decimating his closest group of friends in the local punk scene. In L.A. only a few weeks and still living in his car, he answered a want ad for a bass player placed by someone who identified himself only as “Slash.” Soon after, the most dangerous band in the world was born. Guns N’ Roses went on to sell more than 100 million albums worldwide.
In It's So Easy, Duff recounts GN’R’s unlikely trajectory to a string of multiplatinum albums, sold-out stadium concerts, and global acclaim. But that kind of glory can take its toll, and it did—ultimately—on Duff, as well as on the band itself. As GN’R began to splinter, Duff felt that he himself was done, too. But his near death as a direct result of alcoholism proved to be his watershed, the turning point that led to his unique path to sobriety and the unexpected choices he has made for himself since. In a voice that is as honest as it is indelibly his own, Duff—one of rock’s smartest and most articulate personalities—takes readers on his harrowing journey through the dark heart of one of the most notorious bands in rock-and-roll history and out the other side.
“Yes, confidence was knowing I could do anything. But, I realized, confidence must always be rooted in work. In sweat. In pain-good pain. And in honesty.”
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“Life is not a journey to the grave With the intention of arriving safely in a well-preserved body, But rather to skid in sideways Thoroughly used up, totally worn out, and loudly proclaiming: “Wow, what a ride!”
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