Known for his intelligent and often surreal humour, Paul Merton’s weekly appearances on BBC1’s
Have I Got News For You
– as well as Radio 4’s
Just A Minute
and his travel documentaries – have seen him become an artfully rebellious fixture in our lives for over 25 years.
He also has a real story to tell. In ONLY WHEN I LAUGH, his rich and beautifully-observed autobiography,
Known for his intelligent and often surreal humour, Paul Merton’s weekly appearances on BBC1’s
Have I Got News For You
– as well as Radio 4’s
Just A Minute
and his travel documentaries – have seen him become an artfully rebellious fixture in our lives for over 25 years.
He also has a real story to tell. In ONLY WHEN I LAUGH, his rich and beautifully-observed autobiography, Paul takes us on an evocative journey from his working-class Fulham childhood to the present day.
Whether writing about school days, his run-ins with the nuns and other pupils; his disastrous first confession; his meatpacking job; taking acid; leaving home to live in bedsit; his early brushes with the opposite sex – and not forgetting his repeated attempts to break into the world of comedy – Paul’s writing is always funny, poignant and revealing. And when his star finally ascends in the atmospherically drawn 1980s alternative cabaret scene there is a sense of excitement, energy, camaraderie, momentum and dramatic impending success…
…And then CRASH! In an unflinching and brilliantly written section that defines the book, we experience the disorienting and terrifying sustained manic episode that he suffered which landed him in a psychiatric hospital. These, and other tougher moments, are written about candidly and with sensitivity and honesty.
Yet throughout ONLY WHEN I LAUGH, Paul Merton succeeds in telling his life story entertainingly, with warmth, humour and a big bucket load of wit. Ultimately uplifting, it is the story of a fascinating life, brilliantly told – and one of the best memoirs of the year.
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Kindle Edition
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352 pages
Published
September 25th 2014
by Ebury Digital
(first published September 26th 2013)
Always a favourite of mine, I probably saw everything he did from 1989-95 on telly from Whose line through his series and HIGNFY. But you don't really read these sort of books without liking the author do you? He's had an interesting time - even if his schooldays stories are not much more interesting than anyone else's really. There's a warmth in his writing which is good, and he's very open about his own failings or his difficult relationship with his father. His account of his breakdown is tol
Always a favourite of mine, I probably saw everything he did from 1989-95 on telly from Whose line through his series and HIGNFY. But you don't really read these sort of books without liking the author do you? He's had an interesting time - even if his schooldays stories are not much more interesting than anyone else's really. There's a warmth in his writing which is good, and he's very open about his own failings or his difficult relationship with his father. His account of his breakdown is told well - full of detail, but with the distance of hindsight - and while the malaria tablets he was taking may well have been the instigator, I applaud that he's open enough to think they were not the sole one.
But as with similar books, he's very open about himself only, but less so about other people, saving modesty, or anonymising anyone criticised in most cases. He writes very well about his wider friendships without this becoming a checklist of people, or continual assertions of how great he and X are. And a word I'd never quite have thought of first, but there's a sense of dignity running through the book - he comes across less flighty as he does on tv, and a thoroughly decent bloke.
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Paul Merton's autobiography is well written, and he mostly comes across the same way that he does on TV, telling of his childhood and his lucky break followed by his rise to stardom.
I found it to be a gripping read, and I loved how he developed his surreal sense of humour very early on, writing very tall stories about what he did in his school holidays and then getting into trouble when it rubbed off on other kids. The depiction of the strict Catholic school I attended was very striking.
However,
Paul Merton's autobiography is well written, and he mostly comes across the same way that he does on TV, telling of his childhood and his lucky break followed by his rise to stardom.
I found it to be a gripping read, and I loved how he developed his surreal sense of humour very early on, writing very tall stories about what he did in his school holidays and then getting into trouble when it rubbed off on other kids. The depiction of the strict Catholic school I attended was very striking.
However, the best bit was probably his account of spending time in a psychiatric hospital following a breakdown; like many TV personalities, you sense that he has a slightly troubled background, and the brutal honesty about how he coped came across very well, as did the stories of his previous marriages, one of which ended when his wife passed away.
Overall, I loved this book and thought it was one of the best autobiographies I've read.
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As a history of comedy from a participant this is quite good, unfortunately this has been billed as an autobiography at which it is absolutely terrible as a glance through the index shows as it reveals for example that combined his little sister and his first wife are on less pages than Just a minute, a radio show he has been on. Occasionally the Blurb wanders into the 'well technically it's true' category with it's description of the frankness with which he talks about his time in a mental hosp
As a history of comedy from a participant this is quite good, unfortunately this has been billed as an autobiography at which it is absolutely terrible as a glance through the index shows as it reveals for example that combined his little sister and his first wife are on less pages than Just a minute, a radio show he has been on. Occasionally the Blurb wanders into the 'well technically it's true' category with it's description of the frankness with which he talks about his time in a mental hospital, but never quite mentions that rather than a full mental breakdown it was instead an allergic reaction to Malaria pills.
If you are interested in the history of Improvisational Comedy in the UK then this might do you, if you want to know about the person of Paul Merton and the events in his personal history then this will leave you wanting.
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I absolutely laugh (love) Paul Merton's humor on Have I Got News For You, the absurd way he constructs entire stories from simple cues. Being a comic also gives him a certain talent for storytelling (which comes in handy when writing a book). I am biased in my opinion, because I was really interested in his life and in someone discussing the art and craft of comedy. I can understand why someone else would find this boring, but I now have a list of great people to go search out I had never heard
I absolutely laugh (love) Paul Merton's humor on Have I Got News For You, the absurd way he constructs entire stories from simple cues. Being a comic also gives him a certain talent for storytelling (which comes in handy when writing a book). I am biased in my opinion, because I was really interested in his life and in someone discussing the art and craft of comedy. I can understand why someone else would find this boring, but I now have a list of great people to go search out I had never heard of before.
Read if: you are interested in either Paul Merton (he has included quite some early material) or british comedy of the 1980s and 1990s (because the balance between accounts of work and private life felt sort of 70/30 at times).
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The main message from Merton in this book is that humour is hard work, and standup has to be honed. He is serious and dedicated to his craft, and it comes across strongly. If you're looking for a kiss-and-tell book, this is not for you - he gives a passing mention to his marriage to Caroline Quentin, and talks briefly of his second wife's illness and death, but everything is in the context of his work. I enjoyed hearing about his background, his experiences in show business, and his relationship
The main message from Merton in this book is that humour is hard work, and standup has to be honed. He is serious and dedicated to his craft, and it comes across strongly. If you're looking for a kiss-and-tell book, this is not for you - he gives a passing mention to his marriage to Caroline Quentin, and talks briefly of his second wife's illness and death, but everything is in the context of his work. I enjoyed hearing about his background, his experiences in show business, and his relationships (especially HIGNFY) am the more respectful of his work ethos and quick wit.
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For such an amusing guy, this was quite dull and a bit of a disappointment.
Went to see Paul Merton at the Edinburgh Book Festival where he spoke about the book but in that hour, he really covered all of the best parts.
Did enjoy this anecdote from "Have I Got News for You" though:
"At one point in the same show, Glenda Jackson was asked what her school motto was. She wasn't sure if the question was being addressed to her, so she said "Are you looking at me ?" To which I replied "That must have bee
For such an amusing guy, this was quite dull and a bit of a disappointment.
Went to see Paul Merton at the Edinburgh Book Festival where he spoke about the book but in that hour, he really covered all of the best parts.
Did enjoy this anecdote from "Have I Got News for You" though:
"At one point in the same show, Glenda Jackson was asked what her school motto was. She wasn't sure if the question was being addressed to her, so she said "Are you looking at me ?" To which I replied "That must have been a tough school". "
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If you find Paul Merton funny on TV you’ll enjoy this. He uses some very silly metaphors and he gets nostalgic about Fablon. He’s dealt with a lot of adversity but not been defeated by it. There are some great anecdotes about famous people and some lovely photos. Unusually for this type of book there are photos of people he admires (Alexi Sayle, Julian Clary) and not just of him. I usually find comedians write great autobiographies and this is one of the best I’ve read.
Not scintillating prose, but what a story. An absorbing and at times very moving account of working class discrimination, a life of hard work and devotion to the art of comedy, a love story about silent film, and a fascinating insider account of the 80s alternative comedy scene by one of its most important protagonists. Part social history, part memoir. Morden will always be a little more interesting now.
servicable. Merton has had a very interesting life , he is very funny and one of the best ways of spending time on radio 4.
my issue is that it never hits any nerve , merton has and interesting chip that occasionally he lets out onto his shoulder but it never seems to make you feel fully engaged.
An enjoyable autobiography somewhat spoiled by a lack of detail. All the way through this book you felt like Paul was holding back and you only got to see just below the surface. There was very little details about his time of Have I Got News For You, or Just A Minute, and nothing of any note about the TV series he did about different Countries. Would have been so much better if he had gone a little deeper into things. Still glad I read it though.
Paul Merton recounts his life story with familiar wit and humility, from being a shy schoolboy with comedic ambitions, through his early introduction and five-year plan (which worked out beautifully), through illness and tragedy, triumph and success, this is a great read.
have always been a fan of Paul Merton since the Who's line is it anyway days. the stories around that and have I got news for you were the most interesting to me.
The book was a very easy read and held my attention all the way through. If you find Merton in anyway funny you will enjoy this book.
An excellent, modest, and interesting account of someone who worked very hard for his success. Had more heart and emotion than I expected to see. Highly recommended. And uses his own voice -- no evidence whatever that it has been ghost-written.
Beautifully written - I started reading it standing up in the library and when I found myself still there ten minutes later, having not moved, I realised I had better commit and borrow it and read the whole thing. A lovely and very human account.
An enjoyable read that flows very well. The narrative encapsulates other comedy characters & friends of Paul Merton in the same time frame. My only criticism is that it's a bit short and brief. It would have been better if some of the sections were expanded upon.
Having seen Paul on HIGNFY, Room 101 and Whose Line Is It anyway? I was intrigued to know more about the man. I respected him before and more so now. His wit and intelligence make him one of the UK's top comedians. His autobiography is both funny and sad in places and well worth a read.
I have always enjoyed Paul Merton's work and his autobiography gave me a great insight into the breadth and depth if this comedy genius. At times hilarious, at times heart breaking, I thoroughly enjoyed my ride with one of Britain's greatest entertainers
I really enjoyed this book. You get closer to Paul Merton and learn about his entry into Show business. There are a lot of good stories within the book and some sadness. Highly recommended
This was a thoroughly entertaining and honest autobiography. In fact don't think I have ever read an autobiography which has surprised and moved me so much. Recommended.