This witty autobiography captures the rich and varied life of a renowned French author and pioneering feminist, through the obstacles and movements in twentieth-century France.
Born in 1920 in Paris, Benoite Groult obtained the right to vote only when she was twenty-five years old. She married four times, bore three children, underwent several illegal abortions, became a w
This witty autobiography captures the rich and varied life of a renowned French author and pioneering feminist, through the obstacles and movements in twentieth-century France.
Born in 1920 in Paris, Benoite Groult obtained the right to vote only when she was twenty-five years old. She married four times, bore three children, underwent several illegal abortions, became a writer after she turned forty, and a feminist in her fifties. Groult chronicles her experiences and her intellectual developments through successive phases—as an obedient child, an awkward and bookish adolescent, and a submissive wife—until finally becoming a liberated novelist.
Here, she recounts the childhood trips she spent with her family, Paris during the occupation, her marriages, motherhood, and her continuous fight for women’s rights. At ninety-one years old, she concludes that she has been, and still is, a happy woman—lucky to have captured her freedoms, one by one, paying for them, delighting in them, and loving them. Sexy, chatty, and full of shrewd insight,
My Escape
covers her years of struggle and success—as a daughter, lover, writer, wife, mother, and reluctant socialite—and draws a portrait of the role of French women in the twentieth century.
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Paperback
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384 pages
Published
October 23rd 2012
by Other Press
(first published January 1st 1997)
Evidently one should read Groult's Ainsi soit-elle and her Salt on Our Skin before tackling Rosie's Escape, to better make sense of her life and her raison d'etre. Nonetheless she seems to have managed to squeeeze several lifetimes into the space normally allocated to just one, and has provided a guiding beacon, not only to French women, but women generally.
Having said that, the gender which would most benefit from reading and hopefully understanding this autobiography is not the femmes. It's us
Evidently one should read Groult's Ainsi soit-elle and her Salt on Our Skin before tackling Rosie's Escape, to better make sense of her life and her raison d'etre. Nonetheless she seems to have managed to squeeeze several lifetimes into the space normally allocated to just one, and has provided a guiding beacon, not only to French women, but women generally.
Having said that, the gender which would most benefit from reading and hopefully understanding this autobiography is not the femmes. It's us blokes. We still have a lot to learn about how to make women's lives, and consequently our own, richer and more rewarding.
Ultimately only 3 stars rather than 4, because it's a difficult book to read. I'm blaming the translation which uses obscure words instead of the obvious, as well as leaving various terms in French without the benefit of an end-note.
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Ce livre n'est pas tant une autobiographie traditionnelle qu'un recueil de pensées et évènements qui ont marqués la vie de Benoîte Groult. J'aurais aimé avoir une histoire de sa vie. J'ai reçu de l'information sur quelques étapes de sa vie et beaucoup de commentaires sur son interprétations de ces évènements. Deux chapitres sont même écrits sous la forme d'interview. J'ai beaucoup aimé son épilogue dans lequel elle exprime ses pensées sur vieillir et mourir.
Best quote from a spirited woman: "Virginia Woolf was right:'Killing the Angel in the House was part of the occupation of the woman writer.'(...) But angels of domesticity are hard to kill, and in my case, I'd have to kill at once both the mother and the grandmother. Woolf underestimated the problem; she didn't have any children (...). I should have been warned a long time before this little bitch of an angel too possession of every fiber in my body, my reflexes, and especially the expectations
Best quote from a spirited woman: "Virginia Woolf was right:'Killing the Angel in the House was part of the occupation of the woman writer.'(...) But angels of domesticity are hard to kill, and in my case, I'd have to kill at once both the mother and the grandmother. Woolf underestimated the problem; she didn't have any children (...). I should have been warned a long time before this little bitch of an angel too possession of every fiber in my body, my reflexes, and especially the expectations of all my family."
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This is a fascinating book by an amazing woman. Benoite Groult is a French feminist writer, journalist and campaigner. At the age pf 92 she is still going strong and her autobiography reveals her warmth,humour and determination. Groult writes beautifully, in a style that is liquid, poetic yet honest and down to earth. She relates her views on feminism to her life as both a professional writer and a family woman and I recognised much in her life that echoed my own.
This is a book that is a hidden
This is a fascinating book by an amazing woman. Benoite Groult is a French feminist writer, journalist and campaigner. At the age pf 92 she is still going strong and her autobiography reveals her warmth,humour and determination. Groult writes beautifully, in a style that is liquid, poetic yet honest and down to earth. She relates her views on feminism to her life as both a professional writer and a family woman and I recognised much in her life that echoed my own.
This is a book that is a hidden gem ans I highly recommend it.
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Une femme que j'admire pour son intégrité et son parcours. Une écrivaine que j'aime pour son écriture et son sens de l'humour. Je me suis reconnue dans une partie de son enfance et adolescence puisque le Québec des années 60 était probablement ce qu'était la France des années 30 pour les jeunes femmes, particulièrement à cause de l'influence du clergé ici. J'ai trouvé 2 des chapitres un peu long mais somme toute, j'ai beaucoup aimé.