In
That Thing You Do With Your Mouth,
actress and voice-over artist Samantha Matthews offers—in the form of an extended monologue, prompted and arranged by
New York Times
bestselling author (and Matthews’s cousin once removed) David Shields—a vivid investigation of her startling sexual history. From her abuse at the hands of a family member to her present-day life in Barce
In
That Thing You Do With Your Mouth,
actress and voice-over artist Samantha Matthews offers—in the form of an extended monologue, prompted and arranged by
New York Times
bestselling author (and Matthews’s cousin once removed) David Shields—a vivid investigation of her startling sexual history. From her abuse at the hands of a family member to her present-day life in Barcelona, where she briefly moonlighted as a dubber of Italian pornography into English, Matthews reveals herself to be a darkly funny, deeply contemporary woman with a keen awareness of how her body has been routinely hijacked, and how she has been “formatted” by her early trauma. Her story is a study of her uneasy relationships with female desire, her tormentors, and her lovers—with whom she seeks out both the infliction and receipt of harm. This book is an attempt, sometimes self-thwarted, to break down barriers: sexual and emotional for Matthews, literary for Shields.
For them, the only response to the unspeakable is to speak, to do that thing you do with your mouth, as directly and honestly as possible. Their provocative performance refuses neat resolution or emotional pornography; it will have readers, from literary critics to
Jezebel
commentators, raving, raging, celebrating, talking.
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This book was very difficult to read at times, but it was so much more than I expected. The author says it's a book about childhood trauma and how it affects adulthood , but it's really about being human and how we move through the world with pain. Very powerful.
Fantastic read. At times it's rawness is a little unnerving, sort of deliciously uncomfortable. At other moments in the text I feel I'm reading about myself, especially certain honest, confessional passages. None of this memoir of sexuality and sex is contrived, although it could have been. And while raw it is never crass. It might be too much to say healing, but at the very least liberating. The disjointed storytelling works well to build tension as t
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Fantastic read. At times it's rawness is a little unnerving, sort of deliciously uncomfortable. At other moments in the text I feel I'm reading about myself, especially certain honest, confessional passages. None of this memoir of sexuality and sex is contrived, although it could have been. And while raw it is never crass. It might be too much to say healing, but at the very least liberating. The disjointed storytelling works well to build tension as the authors delve into recurring streams of experience and thought. This way we jump back to a story or forward to one that serves to highlight, put in perspective, or develop a voice of the story. Overall excellent.
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Start: I picked this book up based solely on the title and its slim size. When I got home from the library and read the back... I might be in for more than I bargained for. But, I'm trying to read more of different kinds of books this year, so here goes!
Finish: I just didn't get it. I just couldn't relate to almost everything in the book. And I suppose I should count my blessings for that, as much of what she endured was quite traumatic and/or confusing. But not being able to relate meant I also
Start: I picked this book up based solely on the title and its slim size. When I got home from the library and read the back... I might be in for more than I bargained for. But, I'm trying to read more of different kinds of books this year, so here goes!
Finish: I just didn't get it. I just couldn't relate to almost everything in the book. And I suppose I should count my blessings for that, as much of what she endured was quite traumatic and/or confusing. But not being able to relate meant I also just didn't really understand. If the book had been any longer, I doubt I would have finished it. Oh well.
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I received this book through goodreads first reads.
I had a hard time following where she was going in this book. While I was worried her sharing her childhood trauma might be too graphic or overwhelming, it thankfully wasn't. What was overwhelming for me was her change in story. I realize how this book was put together so I don't know how I expected it to be, but I couldn't follow the jumping around or keep any of the characters straight. It's not an awful book, but it's not one I'll recommend
I received this book through goodreads first reads.
I had a hard time following where she was going in this book. While I was worried her sharing her childhood trauma might be too graphic or overwhelming, it thankfully wasn't. What was overwhelming for me was her change in story. I realize how this book was put together so I don't know how I expected it to be, but I couldn't follow the jumping around or keep any of the characters straight. It's not an awful book, but it's not one I'll recommend or ever re read either.
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This was a raw look into this woman's private thoughts. Like listening to her stream-of-consciousness rant in one sitting. Or a therapy session. Enticing and mysterious and human.
I'm a fan of Shields project to use the written world to illustrate reality. Reality literature may be the proper and necessary anecdote to reality TV.
The book was compelling to read. I had a hard time putting it down before bed. The feeling that I got from the book is that there is no difference between us as people, we are all the same. We are broken in our own ways even if its not abuse. I enjoyed the book.
Disclosure I received my copy from a Goodreads Giveaway.
David Shields is the author of fourteen books, including Reality Hunger (Knopf, 2010), which was named one of the best books of 2010 by more than thirty publications. GQ called it "the most provocative, brain-rewiring book of 2010"; the New York Times called it "a mind-bending manifesto." His previous book, The Thing About Life Is That One Day You'll Be Dead (Knopf, 2008), was a New York Times bes
David Shields is the author of fourteen books, including Reality Hunger (Knopf, 2010), which was named one of the best books of 2010 by more than thirty publications. GQ called it "the most provocative, brain-rewiring book of 2010"; the New York Times called it "a mind-bending manifesto." His previous book, The Thing About Life Is That One Day You'll Be Dead (Knopf, 2008), was a New York Times bestseller. His other books include Black Planet: Facing Race During an NBA Season, a finalist for the National Book Critics Circle Award; Remote: Reflections on Life in the Shadow of Celebrity, winner of the PEN/Revson Award; and Dead Languages: A Novel, winner of the PEN Syndicated Fiction Award. His essays and stories have appeared in the New York Times Magazine, Harper's, Yale Review, Believer, Village Voice, Salon, Slate, McSweeney's, and Utne Reader; he's written reviews for the New York Times Book Review, Los Angeles Times Book Review, Boston Globe, and Philadelphia Inquirer. His work has been translated into fifteen languages.
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